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			I've found it's "not at all", more often than not.
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|  01-01-2003, 05:05 AM | #73 | 
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			[QUOTE]Originally posted by AdamWho  Almost every catholic I know has either weird sexual hang-ups, drug/alcohol problems, or completely neurotic with guilts, shoulds, and should nots. Most of South America, much of Europe, sundry other places. Uh-huh. | 
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|  01-01-2003, 03:53 PM | #78 | 
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			The Catholic church did give me something positive. As some people know I was abused as a child. When I was a sophomore in high school my grades went from a 3.8 average to failing. I was running away from home experimenting with drugs and pretty much lost all hope. A social worker took me out of my home and had me placed in a Catholic boarding school for troubled girls. It was the first time in my life I was living in a structured environment. Although I hated it the Sister that was in charge of the group of girls I was in was fair and treated us with respect. I didn't have to worry about being abused. I became a straight A student. I didn't appreciate Mother John until years later. But what she gave me was a gift. A gift of stability and unconditional love. She taught me instead of punished me and I wasn't abused for the first time in my life. When I made mistakes I never felt judged by her and she helped me learn how to pick myself up, learn from it and move on with life. I went back home my senior year and 6 months later when I turned 18 I moved out, got a job and a place of my own and completed high school. Then went on to college and worked my way through school. Had there not been an intervention who knows what would have happened to me. I disliked having to go to mass at first. When I learned how to play guitar they let me and other girls sing and play and then I enjoyed mass. I never became a Catholic but I am grateful for what they gave me. The fun parts I remember was playing baseball, basketball and learning ballet and the guitar lessons. I had a great art teacher that really helped me realize the creative part of me that has spilled over into my adult life and I made a carreer out of photography. So yes I can see the positive things the Catholic church has done for me, I am forever grateful for how the church helped me. Strange that I am getting tears in my eyes as I type this. | 
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|  01-01-2003, 03:58 PM | #79 | 
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			Debbie - That was very moving. Thank you for sharing that. Gemma Therese | 
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|  01-01-2003, 06:07 PM | #80 | 
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			I agree with Gemma, that was nice to read... It is unfortunate that more don't have positive experiences with the catholic church... | 
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