seanie

Yeah.

That and the blindness.

Ruy Lopez

It's here.
<a href="http://www.sexhealth.org/problems/premature.shtml" target="_blank">www.sexhealth.org/problems/premature.shtml</a> or type "premature ejaculation" on Google.

Ironically one solution is to masturbate also but in a deliberate and purposeful manner as described in the link. I was fortunate that at age 24, a Canadian woman in Toronto told me "Tony, you don't know how to make love". I actually learned from her and later on from a book whose author is "M". Yes M that's all. I can't remember the title but it sounded like "How to seduce a woman".

Amen-Moses

My wife said that to me once, I reminded her my name wasn't Tony and told her not to slam the door on the way out.

Amen-Moses (Happily divorced for 8 years)

DarkDruid

Uh... no. Most males I know and have talked to often dedicate a rather long period of time to the act, even when they have just discovered it. When I first started (in the shower, of all places) I vividly remember the hot water running out before I was done. This caused my mom to complain and I moved the activity to another locale so as to avoid her finding out or getting suspicious.

MadMordigan

At a later age, I still have no idea what a woman needs to be satisfied.

Cash.

DMB

Is that the reason for your adoption of your nickname?

tronvillain

DarkDruid:
That is definitely not an unavoidable side effect of masturbation, as DarkDruid points out. Why do you assume that someone masturbating will attempt to come as soon as possible rather than attempting to prolong the experience? It is probably a result of masturbation that I never come before I want to while having sex.

DarkDruid

Here here, brother! Orgasm might be sweet, but that doesn't mean the rest of it is too shabby, either. Think of it this way... do you just wolf down your fetticini alfredo and breadsticks just so you can gobble up the peice of chocolate cake at the end?

Ruy Lopez

from Dark Druid:
Yes of course. Your observation is likely true. Read my earlier post where I said: "Ironically one of the solutions (to premature ejaculation)is also masturbation but in a deliberate and purposeful manner". But it does happen often that many people masturbate in a hurry and these people will have problems. My post was likely misunderstood. Sorry for the inaccurate language.

TRONVILLAIN'S point is similar to DRUID.

From DMB:

No. my son suggested the funky demon-sword from his Dungeons and Dragons. It has little to do with my personality. Tony is my real nickname; from Antonio.

Mad Mordigan: CASH. Largely true and it even overcomes that racism bit if it is there at all. I'm Asiatic in appearance and this did not seem to bother my Canadian friends/girlfriends then.

I was an expatriate employee(from another affiliate country) in Toronto at the time and getting paid more than double my Canadian counterpart. That meant I lived in a more expensive place(Village Green) and could afford fine dining (like the Sutton Place penthouse).

To be fair, the ladies I saw were decent, civil, funny, fun and loving. Like everyone else, financial security is near top priority. Two of them told me that they liked me because I was smart(read-likely to keep good jobs).

Lord Asriel

Damn. The one thing I can't provide.