Amen-Moses

Damn, wish I were handsome, I'd love to be oogled.

Amen-Moses

Deadbeat

Best I can do.

But then, I'm a guy, so somewhat unlikely to try harder.

Gurdur

LOL.
I was wondering if someone would catch that one.

repoman

jJiblex was possibly showing misandrony, not misanthropy.

But hell, Genghis' post was a little abrasive, so I'll cut lots of slack.

I do believe the carnivorous fetishism that men and sometimes women portray about their preferred sex along racial or other lines is a tricky question. Objectification definitiely is happening, but also some people get into grooves or likes and dislikes that are deeper than are healthy. Then, they can only get off with someone who meets those qualifications. And that is a sad sight.

But think of it this way, (to play these stereoypes out fully) lets say a guy is attracted to Asian chicks becasue he sees them as cute, polite and (dare I say it?) docile. Now say he fucks a few who are kind of that way, and he develops a full blown fetish taht is almost autonomic. What can ironically happen next is that he will want almost any Asian woman even though she may be ugly, rude and overbearing. While at the same time we will ignore White, Black or Latin women who have the good qualities that he attached too strongly to Asian women alone. If the most objective part of your brain sees you picking an Asian that you realize is probably a 2 over a Black who is an 8 then you are short changing yourself.

Last week, I worked with a party host black woman, who was as feminine and pretty as they come and I had the common sense to realize that she is the kind I'd consider dating seriously, though I don't usually like black women.

Genghis, you need to get some good porn with smoking hot FEMININE black, white and latin women so you can round out these brain circuits and not get screwed by an avoidable fetish. The reason I empsized feminine, is because too many people think that asian women have a corner on it.

Oh, and stay the hell away from Japanese porn, it is a complete manipulation of the male psyche that is almost pedophilic and that few westerners are immune to. Besides, it is every bit as unrealistic as American porn as to the way Asian women have sex.

Gurdur

< Ultra-quibble mode >

Nah, you'ld need further corrobative evidence before conviction of misandrony. Might as well stick with misanthropy.
< /Ultra-quibble mode >

ju'iblex

well, forgive my temperament, it happens to be the result of months of severe suicidal depression which i happen to have just started treatment for and will be seeing a psychiatrist about next thursday. i may or may not <take a lucky guess which> also be broke, having major family problems and altogether stressed out by my real life. If anything, i was offended by the cheap solution you present of "lighten up", I'm sick to death of hearing that.

sanctimonious? I find "sorry, but you write offensive posts" terribly sanctimonious. Don't apologise if you don't mean it.

and don't call me blexy.

lunachick

Ju'iblex.

Many people here are suffering from severe depression. I don't see you taking that into account when you blithely rip them to shreds with your talented, but forked, tongue. Can you honestly say you do? Do you consider others feelings, as well? Or are we just to consider your own delicate sensitivities?

Anyway, FWIW, I am genuinely sorry that you are feeling as bad as you do. I know how that feels. I'm happy for you that you are able to do something about that, and I wish you all the best in your treatment.

Celsus

Ju'iblex was ripping people with severe depression to shreds with a forked tongue? Where? What do you mean?

Joel

lunachick

Here come the cavalry.

seebs

Girls, girls.

You're both pretty.