Me and Me

"If you really cared about me you shouldn't have to ask"

openeyes

If you get that line often, I'm thinking it's either because:
1) You're choosing the wrong kind of woman
2) She's been giving you lots of information but you're not hearing it.

You can in either case, if you care, plead a lack of knowledge (your fault) and ask her to help you out.

beth

Look, I was just joking around for the most part in reguards to what I said earlier. I was exaggerating the common stereotypes.

I did marry a 'bad boy'. He was bad(not mean bad, just unpredictable and unconventional) and wild to the rest of the world, but he also had a heart of gold and everyone knew it. What made me fall in love with him was the fact that he was so good and respectful to me in the beginning. He listened to me and hung on my every words. He would ask me about myself and he would remember what I said.

It's been harder being married to a 'bad boy' because it's taken more time for him to 'grow up', but his little wild streak keeps things exciting. Just learn to be good and nice and sweet, but also learn to have fun. Listen to what girls say and watch their actions. We are not out to make men's lives miserable, we just want a guy that we can be on equal footing with.

Ronin

blondegoddess :notworthy

That post also applies wonderfully to this thread

Godless Dave

My second serious girlfriend and my most recent girlfriend were like that. The first one actually used that line, she really did expect me to read her mind (in her defense she was 19 and had little experience in cross-gender relationship communication, and I had even less). My last one was more devious about it, and would deny it when I tried to talk to her about it. But I stayed with her for 18 months like the sap I am.

After the first incident I was tempted to get angry and assume all women were like that, but even at 19 I knew better.