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Old 09-21-2002, 12:34 PM   #81
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if someone is offended enough to take action against someone else who happens to also take enough action to defend his "offense" then there can be no positive resolution. The final outcome is resolved entirely on who has enough force on the matter either politically or physically. Thats the problem I see.
Ah, but in the situation you described there is simply a verbal disagreement, to which no resolution whatsoever is required. Now, if it should escalate beyond that point you may be correct that the final outcome will be resolved by whoever has the most political or physical force. What is your point? That is obviously how fundamental moral disagreements are settled. Indeed, it appears to be the only way they can be settled.
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First, Where do you think women should feed their babies?
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Second, breast feeding is a health choice. Almost all main stream doctors believe that it is better for the baby than formula or milk from another source. Pumping mother's milk into a bottle is a possibility but it is a long, difficult and painful process. Try sticking your penis in a vacuum cleaner and you might get an idea of what it feels like. Also, mother's milk is not pastuerized which means that preserving it for transport is problematic.
Not so I think. Sources please? Also will the baby die or suffer any permanent effects if not fed then and there? I doubt it. The mom at the very least could take the baby to the restroom to do her duty.

Given that reasoning should we likewise allow diaper changes in crowded areas, because leaving feces on a baby sounds even more cruel then not breast feeding.

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Third, learn the definition of need. Babies need to be fed. You are confusing your preference with a need.
The definition most people have is meaningless.

What really seperates preference from a need?

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need Pronunciation Key (nd)
n.

1. A condition or situation in which something is required or wanted: crops in need of water; a need for affection.
2. Something required or wanted; a requisite: ?Those of us who led the charge for these women's issues... shared a common vision in the needs of women? (Olympia Snowe).
3. Necessity; obligation: There is no need for you to go.
4. A condition of poverty or misfortune: The family is in dire need.
Hmm something required, or wanted? Sounds just like a preference to me. Also required, for what?

Needs are just merely derivatives of preferences.

Hence you cannot put a babies preference for immediate feeding over an adults need for immediate sexual gratification.

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As far as comparing it to an adult that "needs" to defecate in public... there is one major difference. Unless that person is disabled and has no control over his bowels it just isn't the same (and I do hope that people would have a little bit of tact when dealing with someone in that situation). Infants are allowed to do things in public that healthy adults normally don't do. Babies DO crap in public. That is why they wear diapers. They have very little control over their physical needs. Babies also do things like drool, cry, fart, vomit, etc... and hardly anyone bats an eye. It is more acceptable for them to do these things in public because they don't have control over it.

I guess the correct question would be whether you would rather hear the "pup" shriek for 30 minutes while you are trying to eat your burger... or have it be nursing quietly under a blanket. Bottles are not an option for every nursing mother. Not every breastfed baby will take a bottle. Not every woman can pump effectively (not to mention that if a woman were to just give her baby bottles while in public she would still have to pump to keep her supply from dropping and to keep from getting painfully engorged)
Well I know babies don't have as much cognitive control. But the mother does. And someone doesn't have to hear the whelp shriek if the mom is polite enough to take it into the restroom instead of giving all around her the unpleasant site of her nursing her pup.

As for the prostitutes comment, there's more to it then that. One being that sending prostitutes would be expensive, would probably be coercive, risky, and the natives can usually get sex from other natives. We are also talking about the difference between someone who is going to die from lack of food, from a baby that simply has to wait a bit.

In any case I attribute all this thought to prejudice against sex, seeing sex as partly "immoral", and "unimportant" or at least less important then "sacred" motherhood. One is no more "sacred" then the other in my eyes. A need for immediate sexual gratification is just as legitimate as a need for immediate feeding. Only old ladies of both sexes would say otherwise.
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Mmmmmmm breasts. Don't you just love being a mammal.

"Female," comes from Latin "felare" which mean "to suck milk."
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Old 09-22-2002, 01:13 AM   #84
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<strong>STRAW MAN
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I asked you a question. I made no argument. A straw man is a type of argument falacy.

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<strong>Not so I think. Sources please? Also will the baby die or suffer any permanent effects if not fed then and there? I doubt it. The mom at the very least could take the baby to the restroom to do her duty.
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Sources for what? The health benefits of breast feeding? Dr. Kelly Pfiefer at Sutter Medical center in Santa Rosa, Dr. T Berry Brazleton, The pediatric dept. of Kaiser Medical...these are the people with whome I personally consulted. Or, were you asking for sources on the benefits of pasturization and the fact that Human breast milk does not come out having undergone this process? Or, did you need someone to confirm that it is difficult to store breast milk for safe transport? Or do you disbelieve that pumping is time consuming and painful? Clarity please!

I am going to proceed assuming that you are asking for sources on the health benefits of breast milk, some of which I have already provided. If you like, ask Doctor Rick. I have know doubt that he will confirm this.

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<strong>Given that reasoning should we likewise allow diaper changes in crowded areas, because leaving feces on a baby sounds even more cruel then not breast feeding.
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Do you have any idea what a delicate doily you are?

I hate to be the one to break this to you but there are no laws regarding where one may change a diaper. Diapers are changed all the time in very crowded places. If you have a problem with this I suggest you try spending some time standing in line behind a person with a baby that needs changing. It will soon become quite clear to you that changing diapers is and should be a very high priority. You will be begging the parent to do something about the stench right there, right then.

As for the cruelty of leaving a baby in a dirty diaper, it is not just cruel it is neglectful. Feces is extremely harsh to the skin and should be cleaned as soon as possible, period.

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<strong>Hmm something required, or wanted? Sounds just like a preference to me.
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Good luck trying to find anyone who thinks your "need" to be protected from something you don't want to see should take precedence over the health and well being of a helpless baby. I am sure that all the people who have to hear the infant crying until it is finally fed will be very sympathetic to your plight.

As for your definition of need, I can be absolutely sure that your wants do not constitute most people's definition of need. If you are correct however, I need you to give me all the money you'll be making in the next ten years. When can I expect a cheque?

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<strong>Well I know babies don't have as much cognitive control. But the mother does. And someone doesn't have to hear the whelp shriek if the mom is polite enough to take it into the restroom instead of giving all around her the unpleasant site of her nursing her pup.
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Do you eat in the bathroom? Do you know anyone who eats in the bathroom? Even my hamster knows better than to eat in the same place she shits. The ladie's public toilet is not a lounge or rest area. It is a shit-house. If you can't tell the difference between the dining table and the shit-house you have a much bigger problem than I ever suspected.

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For crying out loud. A chick wants to hang her tits out in public, and guys get all upset about it? What fucking planet are you from?
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<strong>For crying out loud. A chick wants to hang her tits out in public, and guys get all upset about it? What fucking planet are you from?</strong>
Thankyou!

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<strong>For crying out loud. A chick wants to hang her tits out in public, and guys get all upset about it? What fucking planet are you from?</strong>
And, no, you may NOT see Glory's tits.
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Oh nothing is wrong with nudity. Take it from someone who grew up in Africa and was used to running naked on the beach with african children. Then the French Riviera was my next upbringing. Guess who lurks at topless "babes" on the beach in Cannes ? american tourists!!!! who uses their zoom lenses.... our little american sailors right off a giant aircraft carrier. It is a cultural thing really. It was my turn to "feel out of place" when I came to the US 20 years ago. I faced the heritage of puritanism in this land and found myself having to readjust to this culture. Suddenly I had to cover my breasts as I fed my baby for fear of offending someone, I could not run freely on my beach anylonger as I could become an object of " lust and temptation".... etc etc....when it comes to nudity truly evil is in the eye of the beholder ( just like beauty). Puritanism is the root of evil so often. It was not a divine intention for us to watch a nude body and project all the "forbidden" taboos locked up by our inhibitions.
We are all born naked...Job presented himself naked to God as a sign of profound humility. David danced naked......interesting how puritanism took the divine intent to keep our nudity a source of innocence and turned it into some form of evil which opened the door to pornography etc....
We cannot reverse that process. We can only make sure that we do not go to extremes by allowing the laws to prosecute a mother or father who took a naked picture of their infant on the traditionnal blanket.... that is the real danger there. Is to give evil intentions to an act of innocence while the real evil remains rampant.
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<strong>For crying out loud. A chick wants to hang her tits out in public, and guys get all upset about it? What fucking planet are you from?</strong>
Oh, right... sorry about that. I forgot I was a male and under certain obligations to oogle and stare. Would a wolf-whistle put your mind at ease?
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<strong>Oh, right... sorry about that. I forgot I was a male and under certain obligations to oogle and stare. Would a wolf-whistle put your mind at ease?</strong>
I believe, and I may be wrong, that MM's comment was intended as a sort of reality check for us, reminding us just how silly some discussions of moral principles can get. People rape, murder, etc. every day, yet we (not necessarily "we" in this thread, but "we" insociety) are capable of working ourselves into a frenzy of moral outrage over a person who prefers not to cover their body, as though that decision were actually harming someone.
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