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I haven't ever said that problems which cant be solved can be solved by working harder. Why would I say something like that? Quote:
Anyway evidently you thought or at least hoped it was resolvable for five years, then. It can't be as clear-cut as all that that it wasn't, if you spent five years trying. Anyway, since you've posted nothing specific how can I possibly venture an opinion on whether you were up against a resolvable problem or not? Quote:
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You are posting to me as if I have condemned and judged you and told you not to do what you are doing or have done. I don't see why because a) most of my posts aren't to you b) I have said repeatedly in my responses on this thread "what you do is up to you". Helen |
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It's not as though there's a timer for each problem, and, from the first time you have sex, you have to wait exactly three years until your sex will be any good, or anything like that. The only other interpretation I can make is that you think people should look for relationships in which there aren't any big problems that need to be resolved, which I would say is a lot more hopelessly naive than any kind of starry-eyed visions of perfect honeymoons. Quote:
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Yes. Replace "sex" with any thing else in this claim, and you can see how messed up Eagel4Jesus's reasoning really is. "One problem with good looks is people will marry someone because they look so good, and then they don't look so good and you get another divorce....therefore, good looks encourages more marriages and therefore more divorce." "One problem with being rich is people will marry someone because they are rich, and then they end up not being rich and you get another divorce...therefore, being rich encourages more marriages and therefore more divorce." "One problem with being intelligent is that people will marry someone because they are intelligent, and then they end up not being as intelligent as originally thought and you get another divorce...therefore, being intelligent encourages more marriages and therefore more divorce." |
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