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Plognark · 09-24-2004, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Stiletto One

Hmm...I guess I'm trying to make a point about how a nympho could love his/her partner very much, but then still go off and cheat just for the sake of sex (which they don't necessarily want, but do have a psychological need for), and feel bad about it afterward but have serious issues trying to not do it.

yeah...that makes sense now....that's not what I got from the first one. But hell, I fuck up my posts all the time, so no worries

yes, that guilt involved and the intense feelings of self loathing can, IMHO, be as bad as the feelings of betrayal of the person being cheated on.

Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:10 AM

ever heard of Bunny Lebowski?

No. Should I have ?

Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:14 AM

I waited all day for Angyson to reply to my post, and was ignored.

Were you not familiar with the terms? Or did you just quickly post a question that you thought you understood, but when faced with the knowledge that you did not understand....you chose, rather, to ignore your own thread?

For your information, I was busy appealing the conviction of the German people in the political discission forum. So whhat was your question again ?

Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:18 AM

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Real.
Modesty forbids further elaboration.

I agree with yor conclusion but wished you could overcome your modesty and share what you know about the subject with us.

Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:20 AM

I have definitely met some nymphomaniacs.

Oh, goodie ! Can you tell us some more ?

Barefoot Bree · 09-24-2004, 07:22 AM

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Angyson, you have been PM'd several times, by several mods, with instructions on how to use the Quote button, among other things. Please start using it correctly.

I have fixed one of your above replies, for you to use as an example.

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Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:23 AM

I always thought a Nymphomaniac was a woman with the sex drive of a man?

From my experience, they far surpass male sexual appetites.

Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:26 AM

[QUOTE=Plognark]Yes it's real, and it's not the paradise that some guys dream of either, if you're with a woman who's a 'nympho'. A friend of mine dated a nymphomaniac, and he said it was like living hell. The first week was apparently fun. Then it got rapidly crappy. The relationship lasted about six months, IIRC, which was far longer than it should have.

Although as I think on it, she may have been a sex addict, i'm not sure if there's a difference between nymphomania and sex addiction.

At any rate, he said he shocked himself when he found himself thinking one day "I don't want to have sex anymore...I need a break from this...", which eventually led to her cheating on him. A lot.

I think your friend's experience is par for the course with nymphomaniacs.

Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Zero Angel

Poor guy...

Never underestimate the havoc that a nympho can cause.

Angyson · 09-24-2004, 07:31 AM

He may very well have been deserving of sympathy (though I don't know the details at all).

My friend, who's got one hell of a libido, felt like shit once he realized that he was completely incapable of satisfying his girlfriend, even five or six times a day. He felt worse once he found out how often she cheated on him.

And for her side of things, I don't think she enjoyed it much. It's a compulsive addiction. Not a lot of fun involved.

Edited to add: Her out of control addiction wasn't exactly good for her self esteem, and I recall that she got a bit suicidal over it.

I think you must distinguish between a sex addict and a nympho. The above sounds like a sex addict to me.

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09-24-2004, 07:10 AM	#32
Angyson Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 983	ever heard of Bunny Lebowski? No. Should I have ?

09-24-2004, 07:14 AM	#33
Angyson Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 983	I waited all day for Angyson to reply to my post, and was ignored. Were you not familiar with the terms? Or did you just quickly post a question that you thought you understood, but when faced with the knowledge that you did not understand....you chose, rather, to ignore your own thread? For your information, I was busy appealing the conviction of the German people in the political discission forum. So whhat was your question again ?

09-24-2004, 07:20 AM	#35
Angyson Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 983	I have definitely met some nymphomaniacs. Oh, goodie ! Can you tell us some more ?

09-24-2004, 07:22 AM	#36
Barefoot Bree Contributor Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: East of ginger trees Posts: 12,637	[Mod Hat again] Angyson, you have been PM'd several times, by several mods, with instructions on how to use the Quote button, among other things. Please start using it correctly. I have fixed one of your above replies, for you to use as an example. [/Mod hat]

09-24-2004, 07:23 AM	#37
Angyson Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 983	I always thought a Nymphomaniac was a woman with the sex drive of a man? From my experience, they far surpass male sexual appetites.

09-24-2004, 07:26 AM	#38
Angyson Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 983	[QUOTE=Plognark]Yes it's real, and it's not the paradise that some guys dream of either, if you're with a woman who's a 'nympho'. A friend of mine dated a nymphomaniac, and he said it was like living hell. The first week was apparently fun. Then it got rapidly crappy. The relationship lasted about six months, IIRC, which was far longer than it should have. Although as I think on it, she may have been a sex addict, i'm not sure if there's a difference between nymphomania and sex addiction. At any rate, he said he shocked himself when he found himself thinking one day "I don't want to have sex anymore...I need a break from this...", which eventually led to her cheating on him. A lot. I think your friend's experience is par for the course with nymphomaniacs.

09-24-2004, 07:31 AM	#40
Angyson Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 983	He may very well have been deserving of sympathy (though I don't know the details at all). My friend, who's got one hell of a libido, felt like shit once he realized that he was completely incapable of satisfying his girlfriend, even five or six times a day. He felt worse once he found out how often she cheated on him. And for her side of things, I don't think she enjoyed it much. It's a compulsive addiction. Not a lot of fun involved. Edited to add: Her out of control addiction wasn't exactly good for her self esteem, and I recall that she got a bit suicidal over it. I think you must distinguish between a sex addict and a nympho. The above sounds like a sex addict to me.

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