Glory

Harumi,

There are a lot of books on this subject. One of my favorites is "The Guide To Getting It On" by Paul Joannides from The Goofy Foot Press. It gives detailed instructions for several methods of self gratification and is a good all purpose sex manual to boot. Also, the "Sex for Dummies" by Dr. Ruth is an excellent resource. If you are uncomfortable going to a book store for sex books, Amazon.com provides privacy. If that is not an option and you really want to discuss it, feel free to private message me. I know some good tricks.

Glory

HelenM

Thanks for your answer, Claudia. It helped me understand what you were saying.

And I do realize that different people regard marriage differently and people can be committed to one another before marriage or without being married.

take care
Helen

Harumi

[starts giggling obnoxiously]I must be really immature. Whenever I think of genetalia I start to giggle. Only at the II can people get counseling for stuff like this. It's funny, but well, yeah. I think of detailed accounts and then I start to giggle again.

I'll pm you Glory and Brighid. I'm just glad that my mother doesn't know I'm having conversations like this. She's already convinced that I'm a whore, now she's going to think I'm a sexaholic. [/end giggling obnoxiously]