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cheetah · 07-21-2003, 11:44 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mageth
It's not the length of the wand.

It's the magic in the stick

It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion in the ocean.

So you won't be a male porn star. The vast majority of women wouldn't want, or couldn't easily handle, an abnormally large penis on a lover anyway.

Like others have said, you're not abnormally small and you may not be done growing yet.

Penis size is perhaps the least important aspect of being a good male lover. Treat her right and pay attention to pleasuring her and she will not be disappointed. What comes before penetration is more important than the penetration itself in pleasing (most) women.

If you're self-conscious, she'll be uncomfortable, and both of you will end up having a less-than-optimal experience. Sexual performance and pleasure is, for most people, 90% brain and 10% body.

Mageth is absolutely right (as are many others here). In fact, I'm getting turned on just from Mageth talking about how importnat it is to focus on what pleases the individual woman!

Hopefully you'll find out a lot about this before sex. I assume you'll ahve spent some time exploring her with your hand, which is a very dexterous instrument. Definitely take the time to educate yourself about the different areas down there, as certain ones are very pleasurable! That's what makes sex good.

The partner I chose to spend my life with actually has the smallest penis of anyone I have been with. And ya know what? I don't give a damn. We still have great sex!

JGL53 · 07-21-2003, 11:53 AM

All good advice.

Besides which, if your girlfriend, against the odds, turns out to be a 'size freak', well, you haven't lost both your arms from the elbows down in an unfortunate industrial accident or car crash, have you?

No? Then problem solved. Give her the 'Communist salute'.

Mageth · 07-21-2003, 12:02 PM

I assume you'll ahve spent some time exploring her with your hand, which is a very dexterous instrument. Definitely take the time to educate yourself about the different areas down there, as certain ones are very pleasurable! That's what makes sex good.

Exactly. And don't forget to ask her what feels good and what doesn't.

"An expert hand is more important than a large penis." - Mageth.

Arken · 07-21-2003, 12:03 PM

Looks like there may be hope for you after all!

http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_376025.html

tronvillain · 07-21-2003, 12:39 PM

Ah, five inches is not really "abormally small", though four inches is definitely somewhat below average. In any case, you can do a lot only using four inches of penetration, as sex is not at all about thrusting in extremely deep (especially since women come in different sizes too). Oh, and while people keep mentioning oral sex, it is vitally important to also be good with your fingers. If you are good with your mouth and fingers, your dick is almost irrelevant. *chuckle*

Marduk · 07-21-2003, 03:11 PM

�Don�t go stampeding off to the clitoris, give her a kiss boy�
Monty Python

RevDahlia · 07-21-2003, 04:30 PM

When relating to clitorii, keep one thing in mind: you are not waxing a car. Be gentle.

(No, 4-5" is not "abnormally small".)

Spanner71 · 07-25-2003, 12:22 AM

While the guys may have all sorts of opinions just listen to the women. You're not bad off and you still have time to grow. Work on perfecting those alternate methods ( yes Irene, I mean oral sex ) and you'll be fine.

ebolamonger · 07-25-2003, 07:56 PM

Haha, very true, RevDahlia!
One piece of advice I have...if you're gonna use your hands, please cut and file your nails. Even nails that look short can catch or scratch. There's nothing worse than being snagged down there.

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Spanner71 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Escanaba, Mi Posts: 16	Listen to the the ladies.... While the guys may have all sorts of opinions just listen to the women. You're not bad off and you still have time to grow. Work on perfecting those alternate methods ( yes Irene, I mean oral sex ) and you'll be fine.

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07-21-2003, 11:53 AM	#22
JGL53 Veteran Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Outer Mongolia Posts: 4,091	All good advice. Besides which, if your girlfriend, against the odds, turns out to be a 'size freak', well, you haven't lost both your arms from the elbows down in an unfortunate industrial accident or car crash, have you? No? Then problem solved. Give her the 'Communist salute'.

07-21-2003, 12:02 PM	#23
Mageth Contributor Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Deep in the heart of mother-lovin' Texas Posts: 29,689	I assume you'll ahve spent some time exploring her with your hand, which is a very dexterous instrument. Definitely take the time to educate yourself about the different areas down there, as certain ones are very pleasurable! That's what makes sex good. Exactly. And don't forget to ask her what feels good and what doesn't. "An expert hand is more important than a large penis." - Mageth.

07-21-2003, 12:03 PM	#24
Arken Veteran Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: North Hollywood, CA Posts: 6,303	Looks like there may be hope for you after all! http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_376025.html

07-21-2003, 12:39 PM	#25
tronvillain Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 5,658	Ah, five inches is not really "abormally small", though four inches is definitely somewhat below average. In any case, you can do a lot only using four inches of penetration, as sex is not at all about thrusting in extremely deep (especially since women come in different sizes too). Oh, and while people keep mentioning oral sex, it is vitally important to also be good with your fingers. If you are good with your mouth and fingers, your dick is almost irrelevant. chuckle

07-21-2003, 03:11 PM	#26
Marduk Veteran Member Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: the 10th planet Posts: 5,065	�Don�t go stampeding off to the clitoris, give her a kiss boy� Monty Python

07-21-2003, 04:30 PM	#27
RevDahlia Veteran Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Austin, TX, USA Posts: 4,930	When relating to clitorii, keep one thing in mind: you are not waxing a car. Be gentle. (No, 4-5" is not "abnormally small".)

07-25-2003, 07:56 PM	#29
ebolamonger Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: San Francisco, CA, USA Posts: 685	Haha, very true, RevDahlia! One piece of advice I have...if you're gonna use your hands, please cut and file your nails. Even nails that look short can catch or scratch. There's nothing worse than being snagged down there.

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