I could go on and on with the stuff I heard that made me cry, but you guys get the idea. Like the choir director telling us we weren't anointed. WTF??? How can he tell? Do we glow in the dark or what? We got a 40 min ass reaming for that ande I was sitting 3 feet in front of him crying the whole time (this is when I was the only honky in a 60 member black gospel choir). I had just had a cancer scare breast biopsy and I didn't feel like taking any shit from anybody.
I have been a choir director in Unitarian churches and I couldn't get 3 people together who could sing decently to form a choir. If this asshole had had any sense, he would have thanked us all for showing up and having fun and doing our best. But nooooooooo......