FRDB Archives

Freethought & Rationalism Archive

The archives are read only.


Go Back   FRDB Archives > Archives > IIDB ARCHIVE: 200X-2003, PD 2007 > IIDB Philosophical Forums (PRIOR TO JUN-2003)
Welcome, Peter Kirby.
You last visited: Yesterday at 05:55 AM

 
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old 04-22-2003, 01:58 PM   #351
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Posts: 2,199
Default

Quote:
Originally posted by Nowhere357
In the same way that nuclear family structure is incidental to superior test scores.

That is the point, and it is not nonsense.
It certainly is. No way in the world can you compare race with family stability in terms of influence on the ability to prosper in a free society. To do so is utterly, insanely preposterous on its face. What you're really doing here is ascribing to me the error of equating correlation with causation because of the superficial similarity between the two correlations. You can't properly do that because we have plenty of reason to believe that stable family structures produce better character in children, which enables them to achieve. We have no reason to believe that about race.
yguy is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 02:02 PM   #352
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: Canada
Posts: 3,751
Default

Quote:
we have plenty of reason to believe that stable family structures produce better character in children, which enables them to achieve.
Getting closer...

Of course if "we" have these reasons, "we" should produce them. But notice that dk was attempting to argue for this very conclusion by offering the statistical correlation. Now you're saying (a) that the correlation itself doesn't establish the connection; and (b) there's a bunch of other reasons that do so. Well, (a) is of course what I've showed a few times now. And (b) is something you have asserted but not argued for.
Clutch is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 02:12 PM   #353
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Posts: 2,199
Default

Quote:
Originally posted by Clutch
Getting closer...

Of course if "we" have these reasons, "we" should produce them. But notice that dk was attempting to argue for this very conclusion by offering the statistical correlation. Now you're saying (a) that the correlation itself doesn't establish the connection; and (b) there's a bunch of other reasons that do so. Well, (a) is of course what I've showed a few times now. And (b) is something you have asserted but not argued for. [/B]
Look in the mirror and repeat after me: "Stable families are not a causative factor in children's ability to prosper in society."

Sound idiotic? I thought so.
yguy is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 02:24 PM   #354
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: Canada
Posts: 3,751
Default

Quote:
"Stable families are not a causative factor in children's ability to prosper in society."

Sound idiotic? I thought so.
If you knew it sounded idiotic to substitute 'stable' for 'nuclear', why did you do it? I agree that it's an idiotic change of topic, though.

Yet another missing argument, now: that nuclear = stable. Let me guess; the argument for this is a statistical correlation that's confounded 100 times over, but which turns out not really to be the argument after all... Wash, rinse, repeat, and never an actual argument in sight.
Clutch is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 02:34 PM   #355
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Posts: 2,199
Default

Quote:
Originally posted by Clutch
[B]If you knew it sounded idiotic to substitute 'stable' for 'nuclear', why did you do it?
Because I am aware of the prejudices of my audience.

Quote:
Yet another missing argument, now: that nuclear = stable.
Again, the experiment has been done. The greatest country on the planet got to be that way with the nuclear family as an integral component - not to mention that the validity of the 10 C's was substantially unchallenged for the first hundred years or so.

IOW, the evidence is plain, but way too obvious for worshippers at the altar of empiricism like you to be able to understand.
yguy is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 03:08 PM   #356
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: SLC, UT
Posts: 957
Default

Quote:
Unless you bring the comment forward in the thread I can’t know what you meant to address, so I can’t possibly comment.
Let's see: you are either too lazy or too stupid to go back one post and see what you failed to respond to, and now you expect ME to go do your work for you? God, you're insensitive. Again: You have illustrated that you are unable to find any part of social science, sex education or multicultural ethics that actually promotes promiscuity. Even planned parenthood (your deamon, not mine) will tell you first and foremost that the only 100% effective protection against pregnancy and STDs is abstinence. Further, you have yet to establish the existence of a "gay marketing program," admitted that so called "Gay cultrue" does not describe the majority of gay people, and frankly made an ass out of yourself by continuously claiming to have established things that you have merely asserted To which you responded:
I agree gay culture’s promiscuous values and pornographic landscapes (pvpl) don’t describe all gay people anymore than neon lights describe all people that live in Los Vegas In other words, you concede the point. We spent a page discussing PP, I reviewed the page and found no substantive reply. SIECUS and PP have adismal performance record by any measure, and PP has a history checkered with scandals that begin with using Puerto Rico women as lab rats, to fraudulently marketing of Enron. If you can find one national leader PGM and critical of PP then I concede. That should be easy, except there aren’t any.

PP's performance record is not relevant to this point. I said that they do not advocate promiscuity, and you failed to refute that, instead bringing up this bullshit which is a fucking red herring. Of course, everyone else already figured that out. But you just love to bring up irrelevant points and ignore the obvious. In fact, right from the beginning you ignored this incredibly OBVIOUS fact.

Quote:
Your comment remains a non-sequitur, there’s nothing ad hominem about syntax or context
even when you talk out of the other side of your face, two face. is most certainly an ad hominem, baka.

Quote:
Related but not equivalent.
Thus the actions of one cannot be generalized to the other, which means that you admit that your whole fucking argument is based on a converse accident fallacy.

Quote:
Gay culture values anonymous promiscuous sex, then gay people die from it. Show a little integrity, please
Gay culture (which Dr. Rick refuted the existence of, you might want to check that out when you decide to debate honestly) cannot be generalized to gay people, any more than the actions of the U.S. Government can be generalized to the U.S. public. The general public is generally honest, the government hasn't been honest since... well ever.

Quote:
I have no idea what you’re talking about,
Of course not, you're not actually bothering to read it.

Quote:
Who adopted these kids, married couples, grandparents, foster parents....? What happened to the kids biological parents? How long and $much did it take to adapt these kid? How many failed adoptions were there? These numbers say nothing, tell no story, are disconnected from the issue, and have no context.
People, irrelevant, irrelevant, irrelevant, and the context is the fact that more children are in need of adoption than there are families willing to adopt. WHICH HAS BEEN MY POINT, WHICH YOU HAVE IGNORED FOR THE ENTIRETY OF THIS DEBATE, INSTEAD SUBSTITUTING FUCKING RED HERRINGS ABOUT THE ADOPTION SYSTEM ITSELF IN ORDER TO JUSTIFY IGNORING THIS ONE SIMPLE FACT. 10:1 that you don't bother to read that either, and instead ignore the point and criticize me for using all caps.

Quote:
I’m saying most kids in the system are unavailable for adoption, most are placed with blood relatives
You just can't look at the point, can you? What part of There are more kids in need of adoption than there are families to adopt them do you not understand?

Quote:
I meant empathy alone, is not substantial or always positive. For example, a person with great empathy for a dog, might swerve their car swerve to miss the dog, only to kill an entire family in a head on collision
That's not what you said, flyboy. I submit, empathy hemorrhages from the guilt people feel when they commit themselves to a lie. You just can't admit that you are wrong, can you?

Quote:
No, you misrepresented the gay x-family with the nuclear families.
Where, pray tell, does this alleged misrepresentation occur?

Quote:
Not only did I argue it, but argued it substantively
No, you didn't. In fact, all you said is, essentially "Well if the supreme court tells state legislators to stop violating the 14th amendment, then I'll just whine that they don't have that right, even though the constitution specifically grants them that right." Essentially.

Quote:
have no idea what you’re talking about, and pointing to this website is a fallacies attempt at misdirection. Please address your responses directly to what I post.
I did. You asked what a red herring was, I posted a link to a website answering your question, and you said "Read what?." My assumption was that you were too stupid to click on the hyperlink.

Quote:
The extended family follows the form of the nuclear family, get a brain.
I have one, and mine actually works. If the only thing you can do is make unsupported assertations and ad hominems in response to actual evidence, then perhaps you should reconsider your position. And by the way, since you have demonstrated a habit of ignoring your own ad hominems, it's the GET A BRAIN comment that is an ad hominem.

Quote:
So you content that gay marriage can be legitimized absent an act of law? Absurd
Strawman. I said that it will not result in the domino effect that you seem to be postulating without support for your assertation. If the only thing you can do in response to my points is make strawmen out of them, then perhaps you should concede the debate.

Quote:
Follow me hinto, gays can marry like every else, any woman that agrees
Really? And just where is lesbian marriage recognized in the law, I'd like to see this.

Quote:
The logic is fallacious. Interracial Marriage was colloquial not universal. Interracial, interfaith, and inter-cultural marriage take their form and structure from the nuclear family. Gay marriage and inter-specie marriage take other forms altogether, from what I’ve described as the x-family.
No, you just blindly assert "but gay marriage has to be different, even though it follows the same exact form of a union of two people in holy matrimony." Gay marriage also takes exactly the same form as the so-called "nuclear family" by any reasonable definition. The problem is that you have defined "nuclear family" to mean "any marital act except marriage of two people of the same sex." which is NOT a reasonable definition. Also, I'd like you to answer a couple of questions:

What do you mean when you say "Interracial marriage was colloquial, not universal?" I can't figure that one out.

Inter-species? Where the hell did that come from?

Quote:
My proposition was no more fallacious than yours, and they were both fallacious.
I am proposing a change. You are resisting it for no other reason than that it has never been done before, and therefore your paranoia leads you to believe that everything in civilization will collapse if we do things differently, never mind that that "logic" has never been valid, and that the premises aren't even true. That is the precise fear of change that I am talking about, and you FUCKING know it.

Quote:
I have no idea in what sense you mean humanity, but to assert a change to group A, justifies a change to group B is unjustified, unless Group A implies Group B. Interracial marriage doesn’t imply same sex marriage; anymore than same sex marriage implies inter-species marriage because the forms are fundamentally different.
You don't know what humanity is? And you can't grasp the point that the argument is INVALID? And you can't grasp inductively that not only is it invalid, it has been spectacularly unsuccessful? And you can't draw the logical and OBVIOUS conclusion from that? Please. The fact is that things should NEVER be rejected simply because they propose to do things differently than the way things have always been done. If humans followed your logic, we'd still be living in hunter-gatherer societies. In fact, I can hear the ancients speak: "The hunter-getherer tribe has formed the archetype of all civilization, and civilization will collapse if we ever settle down rather than following the herds."

And again: inter-species? Where the fuck did this come from?

Quote:
Its not enough to call a foul, you’ve got to explain and tag the foul specifically. Imagine a basketball referee that called a fouls but never explained which player committed the foul. Whin you call a slippery slope foul, then you’re oblige to explain, “A does not necessarily lead to B, C, D,,,”. If you call a non sequitur you’ve got to explain, “statement A is a {truism, tautology or circular} because ......
What astonishes me is the number of fallacious statements you packed into a single paragraph Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.

Quote:
I have no idea what connects your hypothesis to my statement. I don’t like stds. I think children bless a marriage. Gay marriage is a mockery of marriage. How in the world can such opinions be construed to mean “I don’t care”?
You say that you feel gay marriage is a mockery of non-gay marriage because it fails to produce children, yet do not condemn non-gay marriages which fail to produce children as a mockery of marriage. Clearly, it is not whether or not children are produced that leads to your condmnation.

And you can quote the rest of that sentece... oops, then it would reveal plainly that you aren't making sense. Well guess what? You still aren't making sense.

Quote:
I imagine the marriage would be a mockery. Experiment all you want, but I don’t fit into homophobic straight jacket. Even if an extra special Gays couple were granted a marriage license, it would still be a mock marriage. Men have undergone "sex change operations" to become a bride. They got married with all the legal trappings. The marriage is called a fraudulent. I don't have to imagine it, it happens.
In other words, you cannot imagine a legitimate gay marriage. Experiment complete. My hypothesis is confirmed.

Quote:
So you don’t believe gay marriage has a chance of becoming the law of the land?
Non-sequitur. I believe that it won't result in dissolving your family, especially considering that it is derived directly from it. And how is it that you can equate "allowing gay people to marry" and "destroying the nuclear family, and/or having any effect whatsoever on your family?" That's like saying that if you step on a crack you'll break your mother's back.

Quote:
A response proportional to the threat being posed in my world means justice. Gay marriage posses a eminent and deadly threat to civilization, so I’d call it prudent, even due diligence as opposed to paranoid.
WHAT threat to civilization? Again, your paranoia is obvious, if you want a threat to civilization you need look no farther than your local indoctrination facility a.k.a. baptist church, and see peole who actually are praying on innocent kids to spread their ideology, who actually are trying to force people into agreeing with them by circumventing the courts, whose power is already so prevalent that they have forced the government to print their ideology on your fucking money, and who are trying to outlaw or dilute the archetype that alowed our society to claw its way out of the dark ages: science. But you'll ignore this and say "oh, but we can't allow people to marry people of the same sex, because then everything changes." What will it change? People will still be allowed to marry peole of the opposite sex, people will still have the same family structure, and frankly, I don't see how legally recognizing gay marriage will do ANYTHING except maybe give gay people a chance to be with the people that they love. And that you would kill to prevent people from doing something that poses NO concievable threat to you, is an OBVIOUS sign of paranoia.

Quote:
and no matter how strong my desire to protect my family, I’d still be morally obliged to control and direct my urges. I really think gay marriage would culminate in what could can only be described as a civil war. Its a substantive factor.
Your conspiracy theories don't even make sense. No one is killing anyone over this, except you.

Quote:
Given the duplicitous perverted conduct of gays I’d argue for prudence . There’s no doubt this is an emotionally charged issue that humanizes people divisively.
In other words, you're letting your emotions allow you to dehumanize the enemy. You implied it earlier: you can dehumanize anyone by viewing them as a cancer, and that's exactly what you have done with gay people isn't it?

And you're not qualified to tell me what gays do or do not want, because you're not one of them and you have already demonstrated that you have no empathy.

Quote:
You’re talking to yourself again, nothing I said relates to pedophilia. Hey, do you think Kinsey’s sexual experiments on prepubescent kids were pedophilia? Why are women pedophile’s rare? Why are women rapists rare? Are their gay rapists? Are there lesbian rapists?
I am neither familiar with Kinsey, nor do I wish to be. And you are the one who said I can’t understand homosexuality anymore than I can understand someone that sexually abuses a child. You made the analogy, now you fucking deal with it.

Quote:
This whole discussion’s about a hypothetical, gay marriage
Hypothetical? It's been legal in the Netherlands since April 1, 2001 (and no, it wasn't an april fools joke). You will notice the distinct lack of the collapse of civilization. I'm just asking us to apply the same principle here. And frankly, your hypothetical situation has no grounding in reality.

Quote:
I appreciate your concern, but my bailiwick and hostility regards gays marriage, not gay people.
I don't care if it concerns invisible pink unicorns, the fact that you would kill over the passing of a simple law is evidence enough of your paranoia.

In conclusion, dk has shown that he is unable to respond to any of my arguments and is being deliberately dense in order to avoid conceding the debate. You have relied on fallacies of misdirection, ad hominem, false generalizations, argument from emotion, argument from force, strawmen, slippery slope, tu quoque and the good old standby: the invincible wall of willful ignorance. Frankly, unless you can actually formulate a response without using any of these fallacies, I really don't see the point in continuing debate. Good fucking luck.:banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
Jinto is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 03:15 PM   #357
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: SLC, UT
Posts: 957
Default

Quote:
Originally posted by yguy
Again, the experiment has been done. The greatest country on the planet got to be that way with the nuclear family as an integral component - not to mention that the validity of the 10 C's was substantially unchallenged for the first hundred years or so.

IOW, the evidence is plain, but way too obvious for worshippers at the altar of empiricism like you to be able to understand.
The ten commandments are hardly a good guide to life, unless you are referring to the ten commandments of Solon.

And I wasn't aware that Japan had the nuclear family as an integral component.
Jinto is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 04:09 PM   #358
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Tokyo
Posts: 1,126
Default

Quote:
Originally posted by dk
Mom and Co-Mom deprive a child of their father and that's a problem gay marriage can't address. You're the first one on this thread to come right out and say it, many gays and lesbians want marriage benefits. Gay people have every right to negotiate with their employers for benefits and salary. I have no problem with that, but it has nothing to do with gay marriage.
The child is not "deprived of a father". The child has two parents, same as everyone else. Gay marriage is just like any other marriage: a stable union between two loving people. If you reject gay marriage, what else do you reject? Interracial marriage? Marriage between people of different religious faiths? A marriage between a Rupublican and a Democrat? Please enlighten us.
Kimpatsu is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 04:11 PM   #359
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Tokyo
Posts: 1,126
Default

Quote:
Originally posted by yguy
Again, the experiment has been done. The greatest country on the planet got to be that way with the nuclear family as an integral component
I'm sure the French would be delighted to hear you refer to them as the greatest country on the planet.
Kimpatsu is offline  
Old 04-22-2003, 04:17 PM   #360
Veteran Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Posts: 2,199
Default

Quote:
Originally posted by Jinto
And I wasn't aware that Japan had the nuclear family as an integral component.
I wasn't aware that Japan was the spearhead of the Allied forces which saved Europe from the ravages of the Third Reich; and that, having achieved unquestioned military dominance, it refrained from doing to its enemies what they would have done to it.
yguy is offline  
 

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -8. The time now is 05:01 AM.

Top

This custom BB emulates vBulletin® Version 3.8.2
Copyright ©2000 - 2015, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.