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Eudaimonist · 02-18-2003, 02:20 PM

I was over 18 years of age (well over, and I won't get more specific than that), and I'm glad I waited, because I had a chance to grow and mature inside, and I was able to wait for an opportunity that was meaningful.

elanah · 02-18-2003, 02:23 PM

Haven't yet.

I'm not going too get too hung up on it, though, because I also haven't met anyone I'd be particularly interested in doing it with. I can be patient (for a while, at least).

Annabel Lee · 02-18-2003, 02:23 PM

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Originally posted by Godless Dave
FWIW, I'm not sure being raped counts as your "first time".

Being raped doesn't count.

And since it doesn't count, I was 15. I had no idea what I was doing but neither did my first love. So, we were confused together.

Viti · 02-18-2003, 02:34 PM

A week short of my 14th birthday. He was a good friend, and we remained friends all through high school and I visited him at college a few times. Probably too young, but I wanted the awkward part out of the way with someone I knew cared for me, rather than spend time trying to figure out who was BSing me to get laid later on.

Undercurrent · 02-18-2003, 03:04 PM

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Originally posted by UglyManOnCampus
It is a well known fact around here that she is waiting for Silent Dave in a shining armor.

That's an interesting euphamism for "glow-in-the-dark condom".

Elbereth · 02-18-2003, 03:26 PM

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Originally posted by vixstile

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Originally posted by alphatronics
I'm 18 now (about 2/3 of the way to 19 (june 1)), haven't been with anyone, and honestly dont particularly want to. At the moment, everyone around me I either know too little about them to be interested or know more than I wanted to. Perhaps I'm just being too picky, but it works for me.

Its fun to think about sex, but I'm not a very proactive person. I'll get around to it eventually.

Thats my exact situation, except i'm 19 and will be 20 in june.

That's my exact situation!

Loren Pechtel · 02-18-2003, 03:49 PM

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Originally posted by alphatronics
I'm 18 now (about 2/3 of the way to 19 (june 1)), haven't been with anyone, and honestly dont particularly want to. At the moment, everyone around me I either know too little about them to be interested or know more than I wanted to. Perhaps I'm just being too picky, but it works for me.

Its fun to think about sex, but I'm not a very proactive person. I'll get around to it eventually.

Not having anyone suitable around and not being interested are two different things.

August Spies · 02-18-2003, 03:49 PM

Ive had oral sex before (16 maybe 17? I should know this) but no real sex. I am 20.

Ive never had sex because I am really really picky. Not it terms of looks as much as the person. It sounds cheesy but I really haven't found someone id give myself to in that way. Well.. maybe I have but the relationship deterioated and I was glad I didnt' "put out" (do guys put out?) in the first couple weeks.

Personally im both dying to have sex and could not care less.

I would like to have sex to get the experience out of the way. to not be afriad about it later on. There really is a lot of pressure on guys to preform in this society. I know that I wont' be too good the first time, since the sensations are new and all guys go prematurely their first couple times.

But this is more like something I want to get out of the way. I wish I had was fully experienced by 17 and then could just wait around for the right girls. Dont' get me wrong, sexual stuff is great, but quite frankly its not so great that id waste my time chasing after girls all day long. Girls suck anyway.

where the hell are all the cool girls in this god for saken city?
/end rant.

Abacus · 02-18-2003, 03:52 PM

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Originally posted by August Spies
Girls suck anyway.

Good or bad?

Daggah · 02-18-2003, 04:06 PM

Well, I'm 20 and still a virgin. Doesn't really bother me though. I guess I don't know what I'm missing?

I'm mostly still a virgin because I don't get out and actually try to ask girls out. Obviously they're not going to fall from the sky...so it's my fault, but not because I'm a loser or anything like that.

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02-18-2003, 02:20 PM	#41
Eudaimonist Veteran Member Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Sundsvall, Sweden Posts: 3,159	I was over 18 years of age (well over, and I won't get more specific than that), and I'm glad I waited, because I had a chance to grow and mature inside, and I was able to wait for an opportunity that was meaningful.

02-18-2003, 02:23 PM	#42
elanah Regular Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Waukesha, WI Posts: 309	Haven't yet. I'm not going too get too hung up on it, though, because I also haven't met anyone I'd be particularly interested in doing it with. I can be patient (for a while, at least).

02-18-2003, 02:34 PM	#44
Viti Contributor Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Down South Posts: 12,879	A week short of my 14th birthday. He was a good friend, and we remained friends all through high school and I visited him at college a few times. Probably too young, but I wanted the awkward part out of the way with someone I knew cared for me, rather than spend time trying to figure out who was BSing me to get laid later on.

02-18-2003, 03:49 PM	#48
August Spies Contributor Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: The Vine Posts: 12,950	Ive had oral sex before (16 maybe 17? I should know this) but no real sex. I am 20. Ive never had sex because I am really really picky. Not it terms of looks as much as the person. It sounds cheesy but I really haven't found someone id give myself to in that way. Well.. maybe I have but the relationship deterioated and I was glad I didnt' "put out" (do guys put out?) in the first couple weeks. Personally im both dying to have sex and could not care less. I would like to have sex to get the experience out of the way. to not be afriad about it later on. There really is a lot of pressure on guys to preform in this society. I know that I wont' be too good the first time, since the sensations are new and all guys go prematurely their first couple times. But this is more like something I want to get out of the way. I wish I had was fully experienced by 17 and then could just wait around for the right girls. Dont' get me wrong, sexual stuff is great, but quite frankly its not so great that id waste my time chasing after girls all day long. Girls suck anyway. where the hell are all the cool girls in this god for saken city? /end rant.

02-18-2003, 04:06 PM	#50
Daggah Banned Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Deployed to Kosovo Posts: 4,314	Well, I'm 20 and still a virgin. Doesn't really bother me though. I guess I don't know what I'm missing? I'm mostly still a virgin because I don't get out and actually try to ask girls out. Obviously they're not going to fall from the sky...so it's my fault, but not because I'm a loser or anything like that.

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