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My argument was this: Rational thought and faith often do not coexist, so most people have to pick one over the other. Christians must pick faith because things such as God cannot be rationally proven (either yet, or at all). Christians who try to have a mixture of both rational thought and faith in order to explain their religion are worse at being Christians than those who rely entirely on faith. Jesus himself praised children for their simple, unadultered faith, and held them up as a model for all adults. Adults doubt, and that is okay, but it is just another way that a Christian may say that they sin (this certainly isn't always the case, but, never the less). A less deficient Christian would doubt less. There are obviously intelligent Christians out there, but if they choose not to doubt, and to have faith in their beliefs then they are better Christians IN THE MATTER OF FAITH than those who do doubt (I am not referring to particular denominations). A semi-related quote: 'A God capable of proof would be no God at all.' Also.. I'd like to point out that i have never once made referance to a 'True Christian (TM).' I doubt one exists, or even can exist, to be honest. However, Christianity - as duplicious as it is - must follow certain criteria and among those is included the answer to the faith/rational thought problem. |
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It is also painful when Christians turn on you - family and friends or like the ones here that are accusing BG of never being one. But after awhile as you shake off the programming you understand why they behave this way. And then you beginning to feel sorry for them as you realize the truth you have that they can never realize until they too wake up. Blonde Goddess, Hang in there BG, I think you are going to get through this ok. And you don't have to take a leap from Christian to Atheist unless you want to. Many will still have a god belief and leave Christianity. Once you get Christianity out of your system and you keep searching for truth things become more clear. It was the way I went and I would pray to God and suddenly I realized that there was no need for prayer as I didn't believe as a Christian anymore. My next step was believing that god didn't need prayers, he was without ego. Humans created god to have an ego and emotions much like themselves. If there truly was a god he wouldn't need to be worshipped, there would be no jealousy. These are all human. From there it was a natural process to give up a god and I became agnostic. I am not an atheist yet but I seem to be leaning that way now. One thing you have in your favor that I didn't have is a group like this to talk to. Note how you are being treated by some? Christians are doing the shame and blame (except Seebs). You see they have a lot at stake when a person leaves. Wouldn't it seem more loving if they were there to try to help you through it instead of the blame and shame routine? It says a lot about them and to me I would say and you think I want to come back to more of the guilt and shame? This was really an eye opener for me as it may be for you. Anyway give yourself time and the best thing I can say to you is don't feel like you have to take giant leaps. That's how Christianity is -- an all or nothing mentality. Soon you will find everything isn't just in black and white, there is every shade in between. So leaving it behind isn't all or nothing. Best of all there are no threats here, you are not going to be dammed for seeking the truth. Its a process of self discovery. It's a journey that sets your mind free. Take care. |
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It's all so perfectly clear now. |
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Hi Blondegoddess. I have a sister named Beth.
I'm in the 'Atheists' Testimony' thread, towards the end of page 2 IIRC. So I won't repeat all that. I became an unbeliever at 15, after being raised in the Southern Baptist faith; now I'm 47, so I've been an atheist for more than two thirds of my life. Leaving behind your religious beliefs requires you to rebuild your world, inside and out. On the inside, you have been taught from an early age that there is this thing called a 'soul' that is the *real you*. Your soul is the most important thing about you; it is worth more than your physical body, or your intellect. That soul is eternal, and will wind up either in Heaven or Hell; eternal agony, or eternal bliss, and the choices you make on Earth determine which you get. We tell you that there is no soul. It's only an ancient attempt to explain the mind. The 'I' you experience as your self is a function of your brain and body. That self is not eternal, and will stop when your body stops at death. You will become as you were before you were born. On the outside, the church you are a part of considers your status as a Christian to be the single most important thing about you, far and away. You are one of the elect; you have been 'washed in the blood' (disgusting concept!); you are one of the "good guys". We tell you that your church is a sham, a fake, a lie which perpetuates itself over lifetimes. It is purely a method of social control, and all the priests and preachers and mullahs and witch doctors are in it for the easy hours and the soft work, the respect they can claim and the power and wealth they can garner. We tell you that religion is the evil which wears the mask of good. Losing your religion is a metamorphosis- your appearance doesn't change, but the way the world appears to you changes. Radically. Since I was quite young when I saw through the myths, it was easier for me, I think. The older you get, and the more dedicated to your religion you become, the more difficult it is. Internet Infidels is a good place for people undergoing this metamorphosis, whatever age they are. Yes, there are good people here, and lots of us will do whatever we can to help you see how much more vast, vivid, and beautiful the universe is when not filtered through delusions of Gods. It can be like taking off a suit of heavy armor you did not realize you were wearing; yes, the sharpness of the world can cause you more pain, but the joys are sharper too! |
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I stand by my assertion. If she was a Christian, she can do whatever she wants, and she won't stop being one in her heart. You can think "rationally" all you want, and your heart will not change. Oops, there I go "heaping guilt" on BG. My. Rad |
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And I still see nothing to show you ever had a personal relationship with him. Now you are talking about all your good works. Joel, if it ever occurs to you he was more interested in an intimate relationship with you than all your good works, you will be born again IN FACT. It just amazes me how people relate good works to salvation, but I suppose must blame the church for that. Oops, I guess I "heaped guilt" on Joel now. Rad |
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