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Old 06-13-2003, 02:13 PM   #151
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Single parent families are generally inferior to the traditional nuclear family, though there are obvious exceptions.
Inferior by what measure? What exceptions would you be thinking of?
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And of course, yguy hasn't provided evidence for Godots "Got Proof" points.
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Although polygamy was not prohibited by Mosaic law that I'm aware, neither did it have the divine seal of approval. The precedent started with Abraham, who found it convenient to obey his wife's idiotic suggestion, which produced the progenitor of the Arab race which troubles Israel to this day. Hardly a glowing testimonial for polygamy.

Polygamy produced the twelve sons of Jacob and thereby the twelve tribes of Israel. If not for polygamy, there might not have been an Israel to begin with.
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Old 06-13-2003, 05:10 PM   #154
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Well, maybe I just don't watch enough TV, but I am unaware of a single example of this in the media. Can you cite any examples?
Nothing recent, as I haven't had access to that particular one-eyed monster for years. The most recent example would be an episode of "Touched by and Angel" where the Angel says to a homosexual something like, "What makes you think God would send you to Hell for being gay" - the implication being that it would be like sending him to Hell for being black. If you remember the series "Dynasty", the character Adam Carrington was pictured as a really courageous and together guy for "coming out".

In the 90's, I remember a segment on NPR's All Things Considered about "dot.commers" who were so flush that they were able to give a lot of money to charity. One such woman was interviewed, and said she contributed to, of all things, a "gay and lesbian halfway house" or something to that effect - the subliminal message being that anyone who contributed to such a cause is a paragon of compassion. Think they picked her at random? And of course it seems that no segment regarding culture or entertainment is complete without a "gay" perspective.

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As I read this exchange, your point was originally that the "selfishness" embodied in gay relationships is harmful to children and thus we should oppose gay marriage (even going so far as to assert at one point that "it's not 'gay' relationships per se, but any sexual relationship based on mutual use that is the problem"). That line of argument just won't fly unless you assume that gay relationships are more likely to be "selfish" than straight relationships, so I assumed that you were at least implicitly making that claim.
I AM making the claim that traditional marriage is less amenable to selfishness than other relationships.

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But now, you've had to back off from that point because it was completely untenable, so you're arguing instead that gay marriage "would have a corrosive effect on our moral foundation" and "would degrade the institution as a whole." To this I can only say: How?
Look: children learn how marriages work by observing their parents. How on earth can children raised in a homosexual union learn how a traditional marriage works? To expect that such unions would produce mainly children who grow up and do traditional marriage is obvoiusly silly.

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How does it affect anyone else’s marriage if a handful of men (women) decide to marry other men (women)? Would that make your marriage, if any, less significant? What do the private domestic arrangements of one couple have to do with those of another?
As I said, the effects may not be seen immediately, any more than people die immediately upon contracting HIV.

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Another contentious assertion, and in my view, lacking proper foundation as well: I don't see how permitting gay marriages constitutes "[a]cceptance of gender confusion as normal".
If you can't see that, I haven't the foggiest idea how to get the point across. It seems patent to me.

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I think most Americans are intellectually sophisticated enough that they can distinguish between the government conferring its stamp of approval on gay marriage, and simply recognizing that the private domestic arrangements of its citizens are not an appropriate subject matter for public policy.
Indeed, many Americans are "intellectually sophisticated" including Martin Seligman.

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That much is obvious. What's less obvious is why this would be objectionable. I mean, I can see why a two-parent family might be preferable to a single-parent family when practicable, just for logistical reasons, i.e. the necessity of supporting a family economically while also providing adequate supervision for children. I don't see where gender enters into this, though.
Gender-confused parents will obviously tend to produce gender-confused children. If you don't see anything wrong about transvestism or transsexualism, and if you think what Michael Jackson has become isn't Frankensteinian, then I guess increasing instances of such things aren't a problem for you. If you don't have a problem with such people becoming fixtures in retail stores and the like, believe me, plenty of people will; and businesses which hire them will drive away normal customers.
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But assuming for the sake of argument that gay marriage is indeed a "problem" for this reason, let me throw out this suggestion: suppose a (male) gay couple and a lesbian couple were to move into a single large house together and raise their children jointly. Would this alleviate your concerns about those children being deprived of either a father or a mother?
Since the lesbian couple has ultimate authority over its child regardless of what the males think, and vice versa, that would be a no.

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Of course, others, including myself, have doubts. But then, since you grant that "[n]o significant effect will be seen in the short term, or possibly even in our lifetimes," the assertion is conveniently untestable.
Great. By the time it's testable, it will be too late.

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"Contentious" would be an understatement. Here we're veering perilously close to out-and-out conspiracy theory.

If true, however, this would be (if you'll pardon the expression) a pretty limp-wristed effort at intimidation. The only way I can see that this would intimidate anyone is if that person had arrogated to himself the right to dictate to others
That has nothing to do with it. We're talking about the right to say what we think, not dictate. Dr. Laura was successfully intimidated into backing off from the issue, not because anything she said wasn't true, but because some people didn't want to hear it.

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I don't suppose you can provide a link to some evidence for this claim...
http://www.ilja-schmelzer.de/Rind/Rind1998.html

The current president of the American Psychological Association, Martin Seligman, wrote of his positive experiences at age 9 in the 1950s with a newspaper man he met each day on the way to school. The contact that occurred between them, as Seligman noted, would today be labeled child sexual abuse.
But, for him, it was not abuse. This was the first adult who took him seriously, who was willing to discuss the issues of the world with him (gotten from the newspapers he was selling). Seligman reflected that, had authorities intervened and questioned him about the man, had his parents overreacted, had they forced him to see a therapist who insisted to him that he was a victim, then the whole experience would have become quite negative, when in fact it remains positive for him to this day.
In one of his recent books, Seligman reviewed some of the research on the correlates of CSA and concluded, as we have, that mental health researchers have vastly overstated the harmful potential of CSA. He commented that "it is time to turn down the volume" on this issue that has risen to histrionic proportions. He further noted that children who are really maltreated and who suffer should be seen as victims and need to be helped. But to impose victimhood on those who don't feel victimized is to risk iatrogenic victimization - that is, causing symptoms in them that the actual sexual events did not cause.


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Again, care to provide a cite?
http://www.narth.com/docs/symposium.html

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But frankly, if what you meant by "do[ing] for pedophilia what it did for homosexuality" was simply to remove it from the DSM as a mental disorder, then I fail to see how that constitutes "acceptance of pedophilia", any more than, say, removing kleptomania from the DSM would constitute acceptance of theft.
Then I guess you don't see how taking homosexuality off the list constituted its acceptance either.
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Back up: let's look at the whole "gays are experiencing gender confusion" bit. yguy, I'd love to hear you expand upon this statement. From the small explanation you offered on earlier pages, it appears you believe that each partnership must have a person in the "male" role and a person in the "female" role. I can only assume you mean both in the domestic capacity and in a sexual capacity (one dominant, one submissive).

I would like to hear the basis for this.
There are certainly plenty of heterosexual relationships which fit that description superficially which I would call perverted, since any dominance by one partner or the other is the result of seduction or intimidation, which are both forms of the same thing. I think the man should be dominant, but only by the woman's full consent - like the soldier who has so much respect for his CO that he'll willingly follow him into hell.

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PS: How many gay couples do you know?
None.
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So it looks like it has a 50% concordance rate, which is great news for yguy. He only has to reduce his bigotry by 50%, instead of 100% (if it was purely genetic).

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This appears to be your strongest evidence:

Of the relatives whose sexual orientation could be confidently rated, 34 (48%) of 71 monozygotic cotwins, six (16%) of 37 dizygotic cotwins, and two (6%) of 35 adoptive sisters were homosexual.

The correlation evidently is highest in identical twins. However, since each twin was presumably raised under the same roof with its sibling, it follows that they shared similar environmental influences. It is hardly surpising that children who are genetically identical would react to similar influences in a similar fashion. In fact, if homosexuality were mainly genetic, one would reasonably expect the correlation to be much higher, I should think.
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Traditional marriage made America not just the most powerful country in the world, but the noblest and most compassionate. In effect, the history of the country from the founding until WWII is a monumental case study demonstrating the value of traditional morality, including marriage.
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The morality circumscribed by the Ten Commandments would be a reasonable working definition [of traditional morality], I think.
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[The Ten Commandments] don't address fornication that I'm aware. They also don't address pedophilia [as well as not addressing homosexual marriages], so God must think it's OK too. Right?
In other words:

P) It was marriage that made the USA great.

C1) This clearly shows the value of the Ten Commandments which don't prescribe marriage.

C2) Furthermore, we can't allow homosexual marriages, fornication, or pedophilia because the commandments don't address those, either.
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This appears to be your strongest evidence:

Of the relatives whose sexual orientation could be confidently rated, 34 (48%) of 71 monozygotic cotwins, six (16%) of 37 dizygotic cotwins, and two (6%) of 35 adoptive sisters were homosexual.

The correlation evidently is highest in identical twins. However, since each twin was presumably raised under the same roof with its sibling, it follows that they shared similar environmental influences. It is hardly surpising that children who are genetically identical would react to similar influences in a similar fashion. In fact, if homosexuality were mainly genetic, one would reasonably expect the correlation to be much higher, I should think.
If homosexuality was mainly environmental, you wouldn't expect genetically unidentical siblings to have homosexuality rates that are 1/3 or less of identical twins; you would expect the rates to be similar
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Nothing recent, as I haven't had access to that particular one-eyed monster for years. The most recent example would be an episode of "Touched by and Angel" where the Angel says to a homosexual something like, "What makes you think God would send you to Hell for being gay" - the implication being that it would be like sending him to Hell for being black.


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If you remember the series "Dynasty", the character Adam Carrington was pictured as a really courageous and together guy for "coming out".
Oh, and don't forget Bosom Buddies!

Maybe I shouldn't mention Oz or QAF?

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