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Shake · 04-23-2003, 07:27 AM

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Originally posted by trekbette
My husband doesn't have a problem with it. However, I do tend to surf erotica and porn when he is not around.

Mainly because he likes attention and I tend to tune everything out when I am reading something. But also because I like some stuff he really isn't into so he makes jokes about what is on the screen.

I have no problem with him going to sex sites.

I'm in a similar boat. The only time my wife had any problem with it was way back when we first got online and I kept the fact that I visited sites like this from her. She says she doesn't mind me doing it, so long as I don't lie about it. It makes for some good pillow talk, too!

04-23-2003, 07:36 AM

I like porn, and my husband likes porn. I don't care if he looks at it/reads it when I'm not around, as long as it's not an "I'm hiding it from you" issue. Honesty about that sort of thing is important, but I really don't see a problem with it otherwise. I'm confident that I'm sexy enough to hold his attention.

Godot · 04-23-2003, 08:42 AM

Mine doesn't mind so long as I still manage to give her some "quality time."

Besides, she's been known to have a look-see or two herself.

Godless Dave · 04-23-2003, 10:10 AM

If we're not careful sometimes the strands bite into her skin, but that happens a lot less now that we use nets made of silk.

beth · 04-23-2003, 10:19 AM

Net porn does not bother me a bit. I could care less that he looks at it. I figure that I reap the benefits of it...

Bree · 04-23-2003, 10:24 AM

What's up with "women's pornography" anyway? I was watching the Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue (Oxygen Network) and afterwards came on this stupid "women's pornography" show called BLISS. What the hell? So lame.

tronvillain · 04-23-2003, 11:31 AM

Well, since none of them thus far have cared about me watching porn on video or DVD, I doubt they would have cared about anything from the internet. Hell, I introduced a couple of them to some good sites. *chuckle*

Definitely Maybe · 04-23-2003, 03:05 PM

Thanks... my SO hates the stuff and is not pleased I like to click around sometimes. I want to respect her wishes, but I was curious how others have dealt with this.

beth · 04-23-2003, 03:08 PM

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Originally posted by tronvillain
Well, since none of them thus far have cared about me watching porn on video or DVD, I doubt they would have cared about anything from the internet. Hell, I introduced a couple of them to some good sites. *chuckle*

I've introduced mine to some good sites just recently....it's fun being an atheist.

beth · 04-24-2003, 05:11 AM

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Originally posted by blondegoddess
I've introduced mine to some good sites just recently....it's fun being an atheist.

Sites I've introduced...

landoverbaptist.org

skepticsannotatedbible.com

www.randi.org.

I actually would tolerate it and, at times, do. But I think the steamiest and most erotic scene that I've ever seen was in The Sound of Music. The Captain/dad/ general(?) was kissing the nun/nanny on the neck for like five minutes. Oh boy! Sexiest scene I've ever watched.

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04-23-2003, 07:36 AM	#12
HazyRigby Guest Posts: n/a	I like porn, and my husband likes porn. I don't care if he looks at it/reads it when I'm not around, as long as it's not an "I'm hiding it from you" issue. Honesty about that sort of thing is important, but I really don't see a problem with it otherwise. I'm confident that I'm sexy enough to hold his attention.

04-23-2003, 08:42 AM	#13
Godot Veteran Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Calgary Posts: 1,335	Mine doesn't mind so long as I still manage to give her some "quality time." Besides, she's been known to have a look-see or two herself.

04-23-2003, 10:10 AM	#14
Godless Dave Contributor Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: With 10,000 lakes who needs a coast? Posts: 10,762	If we're not careful sometimes the strands bite into her skin, but that happens a lot less now that we use nets made of silk.

04-23-2003, 10:19 AM	#15
beth Veteran Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: where orange blossoms bloom... Posts: 1,802	Net porn does not bother me a bit. I could care less that he looks at it. I figure that I reap the benefits of it...

04-23-2003, 10:24 AM	#16
Bree Veteran Member Join Date: May 2001 Location: Twin Cities, USA Posts: 3,197	What's up with "women's pornography" anyway? I was watching the Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue (Oxygen Network) and afterwards came on this stupid "women's pornography" show called BLISS. What the hell? So lame.

04-23-2003, 11:31 AM	#17
tronvillain Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 5,658	Well, since none of them thus far have cared about me watching porn on video or DVD, I doubt they would have cared about anything from the internet. Hell, I introduced a couple of them to some good sites. chuckle

04-23-2003, 03:05 PM	#18
Definitely Maybe Regular Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: USA Posts: 175	Thanks... my SO hates the stuff and is not pleased I like to click around sometimes. I want to respect her wishes, but I was curious how others have dealt with this.

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