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Old 07-02-2003, 09:18 AM   #331
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You think most women like the idea of having some slimeball jacking off with a picture of them?
I think you misunderstood me. Women are sociolized to believe that they must look sexy in order to attract men, and that this is socially acceptable. They will dress in such a manner as you mentioned before either to attract a potential partner, or simply to impress men, because they are taught to think that is the norm. There are women out there who actually get a joy out of watching men drool over what they cant have.

[quote] If I do a realistic rendering of children engaging in sexual activity, the children whose images I used to do the rendering may never know they have been so used. If that's the case, how are their rights violated?
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Because their innocence is being exploited. If I steal 5 dollars from you and you never find out, does that make me justified?

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Actually, there is no way to justify homosexuality without providing de facto justification for other aberrant behaviors
PC is can be considered unjustified because exposing children to sexuality at too young of an age can lead to psychological damage. If you are in public that includes children.

How is homosexual marriage unjustified?
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Old 07-02-2003, 09:28 AM   #332
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By saying all of us with any common sense, you are just justifying people calling you a bigot.
How so?

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What I consider a tragedy is that people who have succeeded in their relationship where many heterosexual people fail, are somehow considered to be unfit for marriage.
There are probably blind people who think it would be neat to fly a plane, and who are more deserving of the opportunity than some pilots. That's the breaks, baby.

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I won't deny that during activism many people throw temper tantrums, but why do you feel they are not entitled to marriage? Just because they aren't normal?
The recognition of homosexual marriage is necessarily granted by society as a whole. Heterosexual marriage is deserving of some level of special legal recognition for the reason I've stated before. There is no compelling state interest whatsoever in legitimizing homosexual marriages beyond the temporary appeasement of a few malcontents.

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If homosexuals have legal marriage I seriously doubt it will be seen as normal, I know I do not consider to be normal.
If homosexual activity is normal, as many on this board appear to believe, how can "homosexual marriage" not be normal?

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Siamese twins are not normal, should we deport them because they are different?
That condition is purely genetic, unarguably so. That can't be said for homosexuality.

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Those who dress out of the norm do so voluntarily, should we outlaw dressing outside of certain norms?
We do. That's what restrictions on public nudity are.

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Absurdity does not warrant denying them the right to be married
There is no such right, any more than there is a right to a job, or housing, or medical care.

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Your views are extremely conservative and opposed to change,
On the contrary, the acceptance of licentiousness has become the status quo, to a great degree. I'd be happy to see that change.

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while there is some value to having some moderate conservatives in society to keep a pace in transitions in society, almost stopping them all together stagnates thoughts, and can lead to role conflict and strain.
Likewise, denying a child the right to eat ice cream for dinner can cause conflict and strain. It needs to be done anyway.

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Why is homosexuality in itself wrong or absurd?
You've said you don't think it's normal yourself, so you already know, but don't know you know - or are afraid to know.
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Old 07-02-2003, 09:38 AM   #333
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There are women out there who actually get a joy out of watching men drool over what they cant have.
For the women who don't get that joy, how is the hypothetical fantasizer violating her rights?

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PC is can be considered unjustified because exposing children to sexuality at too young of an age can lead to psychological damage.
Really? The much celebrated former head of the American Pschological Association says his sexual encounter with an adult at age 9 was not only not harmful, but a positive experience. If that's the case, how could the witnessing of intercourse be such a big deal?

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If you are in public that includes children.
Does this mean you support outlawing simulated sodomy in "gay pride" parades?

Or for that matter, how about scantily clad women?

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How is homosexual marriage unjustified?
Since it is not an inherent right, but a legal construct, it is the responsibility of its proponents to justify it.
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Old 07-02-2003, 11:14 AM   #334
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Since it is not an inherent right, but a legal construct, it is the responsibility of its proponents to justify it.
That's true of every right.

Your right to public prayer is no more morally justifiable than same-sex marriages, and comparisons between the former and public copulation can be drawn as easily as they can for same-sex marriages.

Public prayer is not normal, natural, or inoffensive, but it is tolerated, and those who engage in it don't have to justify it.
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Old 07-02-2003, 11:46 AM   #335
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For the women who don't get that joy, how is the hypothetical fantasizer violating her rights?
If a woman dressed in a sexual manner to get the attention of men, she has to take the good with the bad, she is aware of this decision, and since she is doing so freely and knowingly, the fantasizer is not violating any of her rights.

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Really? The much celebrated former head of the American Pschological Association says his sexual encounter with an adult at age 9 was not only not harmful, but a positive experience. If that's the case, how could the witnessing of intercourse be such a big deal?
This does nothing to negate my earlier statement. Just because one man might have find it positive, does not mean other children will. Also just because he found it positive, does not mean it did not affect him in psychological ways he may not have realized.

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Does this mean you support outlawing simulated sodomy in "gay pride" parades?

Or for that matter, how about scantily clad women?
Here I think we might be on almost the same wavelength. I definetly think that was inappropriate behavior, but no more inapprioprate then simulating heterosexal forms of entertainment. Both should be treated equally, and I suppose, that while I haven't come to a clear decision on it, I would probably favor it being prohibited. Scantily clad women are another thing. It is not the same as simulating sexual acts. We see scantily clad men and women all the time on the beach and elsewhere during the summer months.

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Since it is not an inherent right, but a legal construct, it is the responsibility of its proponents to justify it.
How is heterosexual marriage an inherent right? It is also a legal construct in the sammer manner as homosexual marriages.

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By saying all of us with any common sense, you are just justifying people calling you a bigot.
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How so?
you are being prejudical in your judgement that homosexuality is against common sense.

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What I consider a tragedy is that people who have succeeded in their relationship where many heterosexual people fail, are somehow considered to be unfit for marriage.
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There are probably blind people who think it would be neat to fly a plane, and who are more deserving of the opportunity than some pilots. That's the breaks, baby.
Those who are blind are not forced to be by law.

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If homosexual activity is normal, as many on this board appear to believe, how can "homosexual marriage" not be normal?
In my opinion is not normal, as most sexual activity is heterosexual. That does nto make it evil.

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That condition is purely genetic, unarguably so. That can't be said for homosexuality.
True, but that possibilty hasn't been ruled out last I checked.

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Those who dress out of the norm do so voluntarily, should we outlaw dressing outside of certain norms?
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We do. That's what restrictions on public nudity are.
That is not a restriction on what you can wear, that is a restriction on lack of clothing.

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Absurdity does not warrant denying them the right to be married
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There is no such right, any more than there is a right to a job, or housing, or medical care.
If there is no right to get married, then I guess heterosexual marriage should be outlawed as well?

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while there is some value to having some moderate conservatives in society to keep a pace in transitions in society, almost stopping them all together stagnates thoughts, and can lead to role conflict and strain.
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Likewise, denying a child the right to eat ice cream for dinner can cause conflict and strain. It needs to be done anyway.
That does not cause role strain, stay within context please.

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Your views are extremely conservative and opposed to change,
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On the contrary, the acceptance of licentiousness has become the status quo, to a great degree. I'd be happy to see that change.
On the matter of sexual and marital relations you are conservative, but I will admit it was a poor decision on my part to assume that about all your views

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Why is homosexuality in itself wrong or absurd?
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You've said you don't think it's normal yourself, so you already know, but don't know you know - or are afraid to know.
Absurd:
1. Ridiculously incongruous or unreasonable
2. Of, relating to, or manifesting the view that there is no order or value in human life or in the universe
3. Of or relating to absurdism or the absurd

In nowhere in there does it say not normal, normality is different. I have no reason to be afraid of believing it to somehow be wrong. Whether there are homosexual marriages or not will have little to no impact on me or any other person in the nation.
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No, they haven't.
Yes they have.

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Obviously you don't have it in you to do so, wherefore I invite anyone else to defend the illogic on which your acceptance of homosexuality is based.
Your position requires that pc violates no rights. This has been shown false. And you provided NO counter. Therefore your argument failed.

I have answered every question you asked.
You have avoided so many questions it is ridiculus.

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As for you and I, the discussion of this matter is finished forever, and ever, and ever.
Yes, this is the only way. Unjustified intolerance and the head-in-the-sand mentality do go together.
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Old 07-02-2003, 12:50 PM   #337
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You think most women like the idea of having some slimeball jacking off with a picture of them?

I'd be interested to hear from the women on this, especially considering that Jodie Foster claimed to have felt violated when she found out that John Hinckley was obsessed with her.
Hmm. I don't suppose that her icky feelings stemmed from the fact that he tried to kill the President of the United States would it?

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Old 07-02-2003, 02:13 PM   #338
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Actually, there is no way to justify homosexuality without providing de facto justification for other aberrant behaviors,
Unsupported assertion, which happens to be false.

You have not shown hs to be abberant, and NO aberrant behavior is justified by other aberrant behaviors. Your entire statement has no logical validity.

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"Gay pride parades" sometimes feature men aping the act of sodomy, and this is not seen as a violation of anyone's rights.
Gay bashing parties sometimes features the torture and murder of gays. Since you like emotional appeals, try that one.

And pc violates rights. The question of exactly what we mean by "rights" and how they are understood would fill many threads by itself. This would provide you with many opporunities to practice your obfuscation, so I understand why you wish to go there. but in fact the answer you claim to seek is obvious - pc disturbs the public peace. AND YOU KNOW THIS.

And what do we call it when people pretend something is false, and yet they know that it's true?

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If I do a realistic rendering of children engaging in sexual activity, the children whose images I used to do the rendering may never know they have been so used. If that's the case, how are their rights violated?
This is a good question and worthy of it's own thread, I think. Too bad it doesn't support your position here! At least, you've provided NO REASON why anyone should think that it does.

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All they need is a section of a public park to do their thing, where they could easily be avoided, and everybody's happy. Right?
If no-one complains of an illegal activity, it suddenly becomes okay? You are making no sense.

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More accurately, you consider it a horrible tragedy that efforts to pressure those of us with any common sense left into accepting their relationship as a marriage have so far failed.
Actually, bigots consider it a horrible tragedy that the social pendulum is swinging away from unjustified intolerance and toward common sense. This must suck for them.

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Homosexual activists are demanding not that they be left alone, but that they be given something they aren't entitled to, namely recognition from society for their lifestyle as normal; and like spoiled children, they have spent the last 30+ years alternating between whiny begging and obnoxious temper tantrums to get their way.
You sound angry. I bet slave owners were angry when they lost, also.

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It is not so much wrong as absurd, like dividing by zero, or like putting cow dung in a pie shell, covering it with whipped cream and calling it strawberry pie - or like painting a picture of a guy with a whip in his rectum and calling it art.
Yes, to a bigot, it may seem this way.

And if the rationale for marriage is scriptural doctrine, you may have a point. Which serves to illuminate your agenda, I think.

(Vylo): Why is homosexuality in itself wrong or absurd? Why is homosexual marriage wrong or absurd?

Say, isn't this the type of direct and obvious question which you routinely ignore?

(Vylo): How is homosexual marriage unjustified?

Here's another one!

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Heterosexual marriage is deserving of some level of special legal recognition for the reason I've stated before.
Maybe the reason is so weak you avoid repeating it.

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There is no compelling state interest whatsoever in legitimizing homosexual marriages beyond the temporary appeasement of a few malcontents.
Yes there is. It's not "temporary appeasement", it's not "a few malcontents", and the state exists for the people.

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If homosexual activity is normal, as many on this board appear to believe, how can "homosexual marriage" not be normal?
The desire for hs marriage is based on deeper thoughts then just "homosexual activity". Though Vylo meant "not normal" as in "unusual", I think. Which it would be.

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That condition is purely genetic, unarguably so. That can't be said for homosexuality.
Make your claim in another thread, if you desire education.

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We do. That's what restrictions on public nudity are.
Does anyone else see the hypocrisy in yguy's debating tactics? He denies restrictions to serve his point, then accepts restrictions to serve his point.

Since he accepts restrictions on public nudity, it's clear he understands that pc should be restricted. Yet his professed rebuttal of the legitimacy of hs behavior REQUIRES that pc should not be restricted.

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There is no such right, any more than there is a right to a job, or housing, or medical care.
There will be.
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Old 07-02-2003, 02:50 PM   #339
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Does anyone else see the hypocrisy in yguy's debating tactics?
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Old 07-02-2003, 06:21 PM   #340
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That's true of every right.
Sorry, Doc, the right of infant children to life is not a legal construct.
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