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Old 07-17-2002, 08:49 AM   #131
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“I've almost gotten used to that, being regularly ignored by many on this site, but not entirely. Perhaps I am not interesting or intelligent enough to post here.”

Icarus:

I, for one, enjoy your posts; as I’m sure many others here do so as well. You say a lot in as few words as necessary. Thank you.
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<strong>If hope and belief are synonymous, would stating that "xians hope there is a God" be the same as stating "xians believe there is a God"?</strong>
I'd like to see an answer to this one too, luvluv. I'm a bit confused by your apparent desire to conflate "hope" and "belief." Personally, I use hope to mean something like "desire for a particular outcome and the belief that said outcome is possible." You seem to want to replace "is possible" with "will occur." If I believe something will I occur, I don't hope for it, I simply believe it. I don't, for exanple, hope the sun rises tomorrow, I just believe that it will.

Edited to change my point a bit.

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<strong>I've almost gotten used to that, being regularly ignored by many on this site, but not entirely. Perhaps I am not interesting or intelligent enough to post here.</strong>
To the contrary, you are the most dangerous kind of athiest.On one hand, you display an accurate understanding of fundamental Christian tenets derived from personal experience, on the other, you show little if any hostility towards the faith.

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<strong>Anyway, my deconversion occurred on two levels. On a larger scale I was seeking the personal relationship with God to which I've previously alluded. I engaged myself in searching the mind of God, connecting with him emotionally, and identifying with him through acts of love to others. On the more immediate scale, I was sifting through the concepts of love, justice, and soteriology when I came to my fatal impasse. I encountered an incompatibility between these three ideas as is presented in the Bible. I tried to shape my current faith around my new knowledge, but found the disconnect too fundamental a flaw. My theology disintegrated over a one year span. I took the latter six months off of work and school to focus my efforts and save my faith. I could not help what had become obvious to me, however, and in the end I made my peace.

I fought tooth and nail to hold on, but for me the truth is too powerful a force to deny. I did not want theism to be erroneous because I felt I needed its tenet to be true. I stand here today to witness that I did not need them. I am healthier, happier, and more fulfilled now that I lead a life of my own making--but this is not why I deconverted. If there is anyone who believes it is too emotionally taxing to deny God, that they could not bear to live without him, I want them to look at me. For I still am. If I can pull myself away, if I can learn to live in the now, rather than waste away pondering a future over which I exercise no control, then anyone can.

If you would like me to disclose the specific issues that eventually led me to today, I will be more than happy to comply. I will need more time, however. Thanks for taking an interest.

Icarus</strong>
Yes I am very interested in hearing the details.

With regard to your search for a personal relationship with God, were you unable to ever establish one, or what was the catalyst which severed what it was you did have?

As far as your inability to reconcile these concepts that you mention, I'm going to take a guess that you find an incompatability between the sovereignty of God and the accountability of man.I look forward to your response.

On a side note, I find your handle alarming.Why did you choose that name?

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Old 07-17-2002, 01:26 PM   #134
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ME: So, a continuous lie that comforts is all right, instead of telling the truth and perhaps allowing them to be human beings instead of easily manipulated sheep?

YOU: I believe in personal accountability and therefore am accountable to no man for my actions, so who manipulates me?
I do.

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ME: Are you suggesting that we lie to them too? That we present an alternative lie and treat them as horrifically as their own cult leaders do?

YOU: My pastor is the kindest most loving, and most gentle man I know.
Well, since this is all about you and your pastor, I guess I'm wrong to have spoken about the overall bad of christianity outweighing any negligable good.



Hate the sin, not the sinner.

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petehy: Belief in God brings order to their universe and a purpose to their lives.

ME: No it doesn't, because there is no order or purpose to their lives, ultimately, so it's all a lie. Can you imagine living a lie for your entire existence?

YOU: I say my belief in God does bring order to my universe and a purpose to my life.
Bully for you. I say you are ultimately lying to yourself.

Your turn.

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MORE: *Even* if it was a lie, I would not consider my life wasted because I am happy.
Then perhaps you'd also like a lobotomy, since that would make you happy too?

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MORE: I've got a wife who loves me unconditionally,
Oh really....? Not that this has anything to do with anything, but why don't you try having sex with another woman in front of her and see just how conditional that "love" becomes, yes?

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MORE: a baby girl who brings me indescribable joy,
And so far has nothing to do with whether or not you pretend that a God exists...

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MORE: and all of this has been enhanced and brought to a greater sense of fulfillment in the light of my understanding of Scriptural truths.
How? Provide just one example, if you would.

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MORE: If, as you say, there is ultimately no order and purpose to life, how does it matter what I believe in?
I didn't say there is ultimately no order and purpose to life, I said that a christian who thinks that there is an order and purpose to their lives based upon a lie ultimately has no order or purpose to their lives; how could they if it's all ultimately a lie?

THE LIE: My purpose in life is to serve the Great Pumpkin.

THE TRUTH: No such creature exists.

THE ULTIMATE TRUTH: Shit...what a total waste.

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peteyh: It gives them hope that there is something better out there and the things that they do actually have a meaning in the larger scheme of things.

ME: Well, there is something better out there. It's called the truth.

YOU: Assuming the truth is something other than what I believe, how does that make it better?
Again, as before, if you can't recognize the qualitative difference between living your whole life according to a lie (a detrimental lie, no less that has been demonstrated to be so throughout its entire bloody history), then perhaps you really should consider the lobotomy?

I'm actually not joking. What is the difference, other than a decrease in motor skills?

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ME: Who are the idiots who think that their lives have no meaning without cult indoctrination?

YOU: If there is no God then meaning can only be derived from subjective experience.
As it is every day of your existence, yet, as you said, you have a loving wife and an adoring child. All of which you subjectively experience.

In fact, if you factor in free will (which never is, of course, since its a false doctrine used only as an apologist's prop, IMO) then every single thing you've ever experienced about life including your beliefs is necessarily derived by your own personal subjective experience.

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ME: There is literally no end to the possible meaning any person's life can have as a free thinker.

YOU: Name one.
Just one? For me, father, son, grandson, lover, husband, friend, artist, writer, filmmaker, confidante, teacher, student, observer.

Need more?

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ME: there is only one meaning a person's life can have as a cult member

YOU: What would that be?
You won't think it's pretty....

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YOU: Not pretty to you or not pretty to me?
To both of us, hopefully, but doubtfully, considering what you've so far written.

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MORE: I quite fancy the meaning my life has.
Congratulations.

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peteyh: When tragedy happens, it was for a reason;

ME: Godidit? No he didn't. Remember, we have free will and do everything to ourselves. God is love and therefore does nothing at all bad ever.

YOU: I agree that God never does anything bad whatsoever. Look at that we're finding common ground here
Yes, we both think you're delusional. Only you, unfortunately, "fancy" that.

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ME: It was their fault for not believing enough that made their God of love angry and that's why tragedy struck.

YOU: God does punish, He also tests.Life is a test, no matter what you believe.
Yes...of course it is...and you're passing yours with flying colors! Now look at the shiny keys and pay no attention to the men with the jacket...

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ME: That or the devil! Ooooh, big bad scary devil didit! Satan who will tear your flesh form off your bones in the firy pits of hell!

YOU: *yawn* I do not live my life in fear of the devil.
My Aunt and her family and close friends do and it has caused over fifteen years of unimaginable hell on earth for all concerned.

Thanks, by the way, for demonstrating the benefits of your "way of life" by not addressing any of that, by the way. It was very comforting for me to see how bored you were with another person's plight.

Very christian of you.

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ME: Yeah, why would anyone have any incentive to know the truth when they can have that kind of comfort?

YOU: Ah, so you project your assumptions of what Christians must believe and feel about their God.
No, I provide examples from my own life and subjective experience.

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MORE: My life is living proof that the God I worship is one of great comfort.Sorry to burst your bubble.
No, no, you're assinine comments and complete lack of regard for everything I mentioned about what my Aunt and her family and friends (and by extension our entire family as well) has gone through for over fifteen years now serves perfectly to prove what worshipping an imaginary creature can provide.

No bubble was there for you to burst, oh mighty Odemus.

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peteyh: when a loved one dies, they've gone to a better place and they will be seen again

YOU: Thereby insuring, arguably, that poeple have an ever harder time moving on with their lives, or worse, destroying their own lives in order to "join them" in heaven.

YOU: When my friend died, I grieved heavily for a few weeks.I was comforted (and still am) in the knowledge that he is with the Lord now.Where do you see a difficulty in moving on with my life?
Gee, I don't know. Perhaps in the delusion that you have "knowledge" that your friend is "with the Lord" now might be a good start?

Which Lord would this be, by the way, because there are hundreds of them?

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ME: Besides, nobody knows--theist or atheist--what happens after death

YOU: Do you mean to say that ultimately everything you believe requires faith?
No.

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ME: so only a strict materialist would be the voice of annihilation, itself a perfect explanation and fine motivator to get on with your life before you are in turn annihilated, yes?

YOU: My life is always in motion, I am one proactive individual, I guess I have just managed to escape every one of your stereotypes.
Not in the slightest. In fact you are defining one as we type.

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ME: when you tell them that God exists in order for you to worship and believe in him or he'll throw you into an eternal lake of fire, you're telling them that God is a cruel, vengeful and unjust evil to be feared at the same time he is purely just and to be loved and worshipped, thereby scaring the hell into them for their entire lives.

YOU: My life is not consumed by the fear of some cruel vengeful God and eternal damnation, rather it is filled with the joy of knowing my creator on a personal basis, and seeking His will for my life.
Talk to my Aunt.

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MORE: Doh! Another stereotype escaped.
Doh! Another stereotype defined: the self-important theist who thinks he's an exception to his own conditioning simply because he isn't capable of realizing how he and others are being conditioned!

Deny, deny, deny....

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ME: Are you saying that the only way to bring meaning into your life is if you are told nothing but lies?

YOU: Assuming God does not exist
Yes?

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MORE: and meaning is defined as anything other than cause and effect,
Which it is not as you well know, it is defined as subjective experience...

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MORE: most certainly.
Then you short of loss of motor skills, you really do have no reason not to get a lobotomy.

Actually, strike that, since that would not be a lie.

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ME: So you'd better damn well cherish every single moment then hadn't you and stop just coasting through life complacent and docile like some goddamned sheep because this life, for you know, is all you get so get to it!

YOU: Let's see here, how many more stereotypes shall I escape:
So far you're batting 0 for 0.

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MORE: a)I do cherish every moment, even this one.
Un hunh.

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MORE: b)I am a goal oriented person, therefore I achieve.The last thing I am is complacent or docile.
Or capable of comprehending and discussing more esoteric concepts, apparently, but thanks for playing along.

You win anything off the bottom self.

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MORE: *yawn* Please, quantify the value of the meaning of your life, then compare it to mine.
Mine is forever open; yours was closed two thousand years ago.
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Old 07-17-2002, 01:39 PM   #135
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Godidit? No he didn't. Remember, we have free will and do everything to ourselves. God is love and therefore does nothing at all bad ever
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I think Odemus DOES misunderstand free will. He has continuously insisted an atheist can't have any reason for doing anything. In other words, life is meaningless if you really have some freedom to make a choice. Only when you absolutely DERIVE all your actions from luminous axioms does life have a meaning, according to Odemus. Freedom is slavery!
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I think Odemus DOES misunderstand free will. He has continuously insisted an atheist can't have any reason for doing anything. In other words, life is meaningless if you really have some freedom to make a choice. Only when you absolutely DERIVE all your actions from luminous axioms does life have a meaning, according to Odemus. Freedom is slavery!</strong>
Yes, you are either a slave to sin or a slave to righteousness.I don't believe in free will.

I'll get back to Koy ASAP.
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Well, life does not have meaning. So get used to it and stop thinking that the universe really have any plans for its children. Unless, of course, you are too afraid (or infantile) to admit this lucid truth.
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I am going to respond to you Koy, but you have one last chance here to keep the dialogue between us open.I understand that you have a lot of personal pain, and much anger towards Christianity but that in no way entitles you to take the things I say out of context.When you originally made this statement:

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<strong>That or the devil! Ooooh, big bad scary devil didit! Satan who will tear your flesh form off your bones in the firy pits of hell!</strong>
It was stated in a general context of what Christians believe as a result of tragedy.It was not stated in reference to your family.When I responded to it:

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<strong>*yawn* I do not live my life in fear of the devil.</strong>
it was specific to my life, and had no bearing on your family.If you continue to distort my position, I will no longer respond to you, plain and simple, you decide whether or not it's worth sticking to the truth.

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<strong> So, a continuous lie that comforts is all right, instead of telling the truth and perhaps allowing them to be human beings instead of easily manipulated sheep?</strong>
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<strong> I believe in personal accountability and therefore am accountable to no man for my actions, so who manipulates me?</strong>
You:I do.

...and you accuse me of avoiding the issue.

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<strong>Well, since this is all about you and your pastor, I guess I'm wrong to have spoken about the overall bad of christianity outweighing any negligable good.</strong>
This is how you consistently operate. You issue blanket judgements against all Christians, even while addressing them personally.

That's odd because I believe every person is accountable for their own actions, regardless of what they believe.I would have thought that to be a logical conclusion of an athiest.

Maybe I was wrong but I thought this forum was a place for the exchange of thoughts and ideas, not finger pointing.After all, I don't blame you for the godless acts of atrocity commited in the name of communism.

Hate sin and not the sinner indeed.

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petehy: Belief in God brings order to their universe and a purpose to their lives.

you: No it doesn't, because there is no order or purpose to their lives, ultimately, so it's all a lie. Can you imagine living a lie for your entire existence?

Me: I say my belief in God does bring order to my universe and a purpose to my life.

You:Bully for you. I say you are ultimately lying to yourself.

Your turn.
We can sit here and make declarative statements about what my faith means to me all day but the fact is we both agree that meaning is derived from personal experience (in the absence of God) which means I reserve the right to determine how meaningful my life is.Of course I believe in a God, and my purpose is defined by Him, but from a perspective of disbelief in God (that is, your perspective), that is irrelevant.You are simply unable to make a quantitative assessment of the value of the meaning of my life.

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<strong>Then perhaps you'd also like a lobotomy, since that would make you happy too?</strong>
What's the going rate for one of those?

Perhaps a lobotomy would make me happy but that is beside the point.I am put on this planet to serve God, and that is where my greatest joy comes from.To seek happiness just for the sake of happiness will always be a lesser degree (and ultimately unfulfilling) happiness.


Me:I've got a wife who loves me unconditionally,


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<strong>Oh really....? Not that this has anything to do with anything, but why don't you try having sex with another woman in front of her and see just how conditional that "love" becomes, yes?</strong>
One thing I like about your approach is that it does force me to be as precise as I can possibly be or else you will ignore the obvious meaning of my statement.

My wife loves who I am in Christ unconditionally.That means she accepts me for my human weaknesses and frailties as I do hers.

Me: and all of this has been enhanced and brought to a greater sense of fulfillment in the light of my understanding of Scriptural truths.

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<strong>How? Provide just one example, if you would.</strong>
My life is my testimony to this fact.It is through my pursuit of holiness that I learn to submit to the will of God, to be accountable for my actions to him, to be responsible as a provider and a steward to my family.My journey has been one of increasing fulfillment since my conversion.


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<strong>THE LIE: My purpose in life is to serve the Great Pumpkin.

THE TRUTH: No such creature exists.

THE ULTIMATE TRUTH: Shit...what a total waste.</strong>
Let's assume there is no God.

I am happy.I find meaning and purpose in my life.

Prove that either:

a)I don't really have happiness.

or

b)My happiness is less than yours.

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<strong>In fact, if you factor in free will (which never is, of course, since its a false doctrine used only as an apologist's prop, IMO) then every single thing you've ever experienced about life including your beliefs is necessarily derived by your own personal subjective experience.</strong>
I don't believe in free will.

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You: There is literally no end to the possible meaning any person's life can have as a free thinker.

Me: Name one.

You:Just one? For me, father, son, grandson, lover, husband, friend, artist, writer, filmmaker, confidante, teacher, student, observer.
Apart from filmmaker, I am all of those things as well.If I so chose, I could be a filmmaker, but it doesn't interest me.


You: there is only one meaning a person's life can have as a cult member

So because I am a Christian I can't be a father, son, grandson, lover, husband, friend, artist, writer, filmmaker, confidante, teacher, student or observer? Why not?

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Me: My life is living proof that the God I worship is one of great comfort.Sorry to burst your bubble.

No, no, you're assinine comments and complete lack of regard for everything I mentioned about what my Aunt and her family and friends (and by extension our entire family as well) has gone through for over fifteen years now serves perfectly to prove what worshipping an imaginary creature can provide.
I addressed this at the beginning of this post but I would like to add that I intentionally avoided commenting on your aunt and personal life out of respect for the fact that it is such a great source of anguish for you.I am aware at this point that it is impossible for me to reveal God to you as as a source of comfort.I felt, and still do that it is best for me to leave your family issues alone until the point you are ready to talk about them without pointing fingers.I do pray for healing in your family though.

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peteyh: when a loved one dies, they've gone to a better place and they will be seen again

YOU: Thereby insuring, arguably, that poeple have an ever harder time moving on with their lives, or worse, destroying their own lives in order to "join them" in heaven.

me: When my friend died, I grieved heavily for a few weeks.I was comforted (and still am) in the knowledge that he is with the Lord now.Where do you see a difficulty in moving on with my life?

Gee, I don't know. Perhaps in the delusion that you have "knowledge" that your friend is "with the Lord" now might be a good start?
Assuming I am deluded, how do you explain the fact that my faith aided my healing process and contrary to what you initially stated I have moved on with my life?

You:Which Lord would this be, by the way, because there are hundreds of them?

There is only one.You will find Him in the old and new testaments of what is commonly known as The Holy Bible.

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You: Besides, nobody knows--theist or atheist--what happens after death

Me: Do you mean to say that ultimately everything you believe requires faith?

You:No.
If you concede that nobody knows what happens after death you must concede that regardless of what you believe happens after death, it requires faith.Therefore, your disbelief in Christ requires faith.

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<strong>Doh! Another stereotype defined: the self-important theist who thinks he's an exception to his own conditioning simply because he isn't capable of realizing how he and others are being conditioned!</strong>
How have I been conditioned?

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Me: *yawn* Please, quantify the value of the meaning of your life, then compare it to mine.

YouMine is forever open; yours was closed two thousand years ago.
You'll have to do better than another in your series of unsubstantiated declarative statements about me and my life.Please demonstrate how the meaning of your life is open and mine is closed.

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Reason is non-contradictory identification. Being rational means that one bases one's beliefs only upon a reasoned consideration of the available evidence.

Although many religious views proceed logically from their premises, none of them offer an initial premise that is based only on a reasoned consideration of the available evidence.

Religion's premises are not rational.

Atheism offers one the opportunity to be rational, consistent, and to avoid any contradiction between reality, and one's metaphysical views.

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<strong>Good for you. So did I, once.

However, after about twenty-five or so, it becomes old. This is my home. They have come, uninvited, for the sole purpose of telling me what I am quietly doing is wrong.</strong>
Ignore them.They do go away.

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<strong>They will do this, whether I am sleeping, eating, relaxing, bathing, having sex, doing homework, what have you. In their eagerness to "save" me, they sometimes do not leave without what borders on argument. This once caused something on my stove to catch fire, and another time, my bathtub to overflow (a flood, how Biblical!</strong>
If they bother you that badly try this approach:

1)Open the door
2)"No thanks, not interested."
3)Close the door.

This entire process takes somewhere in the neighborhood of 5 seconds depending on how many locks you have on the door.

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<strong>When it is a regular intrusion, as it was at my previous address, it becomes tedious and unwelcome. If they have not been invited, they need not presume to ring my doorbell for the sole purpose of "correcting" my privately held beliefs. If I am not calling for help, you may assume I am doing fine behind the privacy of my firmly closed door.</strong>
These people are only going to try 'correcting your privately held beliefs' for as long as you engage them.Try not engaging them.

I have been approached countless times by JW's and Mormons and I have never once had a problem getting rid of them if I am otherwise engaged or am simply not in the mood to talk.

You act like it's the Spanish inquisition.Life is filled with inconveniences and only the tiniest fraction of a percent are people knocking on your door who you would rather not.

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