Dark Jedi

Aww, it will. Hell, say the word and you'd have half this board on your doorstep fighting gladiatorial style for the honor by sunrise.

And not all of them men.


Personal note: I have always thought that the first time should be with someone caring and more experienced. That way, you have a good first impression to help you lead a good healthy sex life.

That said... I care! (Kidding. I do care, but the Missus Jedi would castrate me with a dull lightsaber.)

BigBlue2

I was 15 (about 2 months short of 16) when it happened at a birthday party (she was a few months younger than me). We were both pretty drunk, but managed to enjoy it enough for lots of repeat performances.

Dark Jedi

Well, I'm not 40 yet. Swing on by, I'd be happy to proposition ya.

Now, bear in mind I can't actually follow through on it, but I'd be happy to proposition with all sincerity.

Novowels

17.

very bad experience.

stupid Catholic upbringing.

DonnieDarko

I was 20, and it was a strange situation. She was 25 and a good friend of mine that I met online. It was more of a favor to me than anything else. We had already met in person 2 times before it happened so no suprises there. She was married at the time though which was a little weird for me. Also the fact that I had 3 whole weeks to be nervous about it before the actual date. Looking back I kind of wish it had been something spontantious with someone else.

The experience itself was very nice, she was quite beautiful and very understanding. But the aftermath was not good. The good friendship I had with her didn't exist anymore, and it was mostly my fault. I don't think I was emotionally ready, and became very fixated on her. At the time I thought it was love, but looking back it was just a strong infatuation. She wasn't interested in me in that way and it was very difficult for me to accept. About 3 months after it happened was the last time I ever spoke with her.

I'm 25 now and that is still my only time. I've had some sexual experiences since then but haven't been that far again.

christ-on-a-stick

Just a couple days before my 18th birthday. The first few experiences (with that boyfriend) weren't all that great seeing as he didn't know what the heck he was doing and was too "proud" to admit it, but my next "steady" boyfriend after that was a whole new ballgame and I usually think of him as my "first" - we were together for a year and did a LOT of "learning" together in that time

Came close many, many times before (and had oral, etc.) with the boyfriend I had from 15-17, but the religious indoctrination kept me chaste... in hindsight (after "doing it") I wished that I HAD done it with him first, he was a wonderful guy, very loving and tender and we cared for each other a lot, and when I realized it was a "good thing" I wished I had shared it with him first and not the guy who was technically my first. No matter though, my first experiences on the whole (the first few years and before I entered my first marriage) were all positive.

Edited to add: Oops, forgot about the girls! Let's see... first sexual experiences (mutual masturbation, plus kissing/petting) with another girl - 12. First no holds-barred sex with another girl: 18.

Bree

Maybe the question should be "How old were you when you had your first orgasm, and how was it accomplished?"

Psycho Economist

That's another poll altogether... or perhaps two, if people don't want to leave details by their names.

Secular Pinoy

Yikes, same here. It was a month before my 18 birthday. Then a TWO Year dry spell. Then it was pure carnal bliss after that.

Disclaimer: I might be exaggerating that last part.

Derec

Ok, that is more reasonable
However, what I meant was that you can be content or something like that not having sex but I did not understand how you could be "proud".

Let me explain. One usually feels pride over some acomplishment. In order for sex to be an accomplishment you need to have had a desire and opportunity but still refuse to do it. That would most probably mean that you find sex inherently bad (much like Paul did).

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My reasons are three-fold. For one, if I had spent my time in high school or as an undergrad trying to fix my little "problem," then I probably wouldn't have done so good in school and I wouldn't be where I am at right now. Hence, score!!!

I can not agree on this point. You can pursue extracurricular activities, including going to parties and having a girlfriend, without neglecting school. It just comes to the right balance.

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Secondly, I am probably not ready (gasp), since I tend to believe that at this moment I would become very obsessant (with whoever with I "get my nut on").

Are you the obsessive types? During my few unfruitful infatuations during high school I tended to get obsessed but I think it is something you grow out of. At least I did.

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I still much rather enjoy my grotesque independance and general indifference to relationships. Hence, not score!!!

You can have sex without a (serious) relationship.

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Thirdly, I'm a loser! Score!!!

Actually it is more like you kicking the ball into your own goal.

UMoC