Loren Pechtel

I think I was offered it as a 17th birthday present. The whole situation was such a surprise (while I had known her for months in close quarters there hadn't been anything romantic between us) that I was just stunned and didn't react at all. At the time I thought it was just a kiss but in hindsight I think I was being offered the whole thing but when I didn't react to her kiss she treated it as a rejection.

Jacey

*scratches head*

I've been told this twice.........by a girl who had just broken up with me (by way of me catching her and another guy in the pool together kissing), and by a girl who decided to go out with "my competition" instead.

As a trial, I was a typical jerk (like I've seen other guys do, I'm not naturally a jerk) down on Bourbon one night with some friends. Two different drunk girls kissed me and wanted to give me their numbers.

What the hell is wrong with me.........

Vespertine

I'm 20, still virgin and not really bothered about it. I don't feel I need to wait for marriage, but I don't want to just have sex to have sex. I'm sure it'll be a lot better in the long run. Strangely enough, I think about sex all the time but it -is- human nature. I just don't know any other girls that think about it quite as often as I do.

Godless Dave

Jacey, we actually had a big discussion about this last year. The fact is, a significant number of women are attracted to jerks. They see nice guys as wimpy.

To be fair, I'm sure there are men who are attracted to women who will treat them badly. A good friend of mine is one of them. I'm still trying to figure out if my brother's one too, or if he's just so shy that he only ends up with the women who are attracted to him, who so far have been bitches.

Godless Dave

You don't know any other girls who admit to thinking about it as often as you do.

[cue Jackie from That 70s Show]:"If men find out we want it too we'll never get jewelry again!"

That said, I'm sure level of sexual desire varies widely. Some of the women on the board could probably offer more insight into this than I can.

ju'iblex

well, you obviously havent met me yet.

Jesus Tap-Dancin' Christ

In the same boat as you.

20.

JEST2ASK

I know the sample size is extremly small but nearly 60% of the respondants were virgins until at least 18 :notworthy
(In spite of people like me)

With what is protrayed in the media and this being the Internet Infidels ... I am pleasantly surprised .... I guess it further proves disblief or non-belief in God is not an indicator of morals.

Arvel Joffi

It just proves that all the infidels are smart people. We all wanted it bad, but being geeks we couldn't get any until we learned to use our vast intellects to figure out how to get it: trickery, attracting them with wealth or pec implants, pity sex...the usual.

ebolamonger

well, i don't think waiting until you're 18 to have sex is any indication of morality, either. if you and your partner are, say, 16, mature, informed, ready, and willing, then i say get it on. doesn't make you immoral.