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More importantly, your punishing the kid as well in this scenario, forcing it to be raised by someone who never wanted it to be born. If she can give the child up for adoption, we're right back to, OK, what's the punishment for the man who committed the same act in causing the pregnancy? Quote:
Shadowy, this is the worst of all possible arguments against abortion. It assumes that women deserve more punishment for causing pregnancy than men, and so sex is wrong for women but fine (or just less wrong) for men. It assumes a child is a woman's cross to bear, which demeans fathers everywhere, demeans women by assuming their role in life, and demeans children by making them living punishments for their parents rather than people. This argument essentially espouses hatred of all people. |
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So, the number of reported legal abortions performed at greater than or equal to 21 weeks in 1999 (that was the most recent I could find)...was 9,643 (1.5% of the total number of abortions). Personally, I really do find this number unreasonable based upon my own view of the importance of sentient life as it relates to the non-medical motivation for abortion. Quote:
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Action, neverless, does seem warranted in my view, at this point in time. |
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And why is a late abortion so much riskier than an early one? Medically speaking? It seems odd to me that (if I'm right) this country has no nationally mandated term limits on abortions done on a physically healthy mother and unborn baby. Helen |
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I'm not sure I see it in such extreme terms as you are stating here, but think of it this way: If you believe that life begins at conception then basically what you are saying is this: two people have sex, knowing full well that there are risks involved and the act might result in the conception of a baby. They take this risk, for whatever reasons, and lo and behold they produce a baby. They then decide to murder the baby rather than deal with the consequences. How do you justify that? No matter how painful or burdensome the pregnancy might be isn't it better not to commit murder? Wouldn't it be better to go through that, after all, the parents knew it might be a possible consequence of their action, and either raise the baby themselves or give it up for adoption? Your analogy to breaking a leg skiing is not quite fair, as in correcting the broken leg doesn't require murdering anybody. As far as the inequity between the mother and the father, that's going to be there. I wish there were a way to equalize the situation, but I'm not sure how that's possible. Certainly a father can't prevent a woman from having an abortion because he wants to keep the baby. |
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You wake up in the morning and find yourself back to back in bed with an unconscious violinist. A famous unconscious violinist. He has been found to have a fatal kidney ailment, and the Society of Music Lovers has canvassed all the medical records and found that you alone have the right blood type to help. They have therefore kidnapped you, and last night the violinist's circulatory system was plugged into yours, so that your kidneys can be used to extract poisons from his blood as well as your own. The director of the hospital now tells you, "Look, we're sorry the Society of Music Lovers did this to you -- we would never have permitted it if we had known. But still, they did it, and the violinist now is plugged into you. To unplug you would be to kill him. But never mind, it's only for nine months. By then he will have recovered from his ailment, and can safely be unplugged from you." Is it morally incumbent on you to accede to this situation? No doubt it would be very nice of you if you did, a great kindness. But do you have to accede to it? What if it were not nine months, but nine years? Or still longer? What if the director of the hospital says, "Tough luck, I agree, but you've now got to stay in bed, with the violinist plugged into you, for the rest of your life. Because remember this. All persons have a right to life, and violinists are persons. Granted you have a right to decide what happens in and to your body, but a person's right to life outweighs your right to decide what happens in and to your body. So you cannot ever be unplugged from him." I imagine that you would regard this as outrageous. |
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Another tidbit based on my experience... when I found out that the first fetus had died, the doctors did not want to induce labor (which for some reason didn't happen naturally). They wanted to send me to an abortion clinic to have a D&E. This didn't make sense to me at the time and doesn't today, but that's what happened. Although the baby was dead, it still would have been listed as an abortion in stats like this because it would still have been the surgical termination of a pregnancy even though the fetus had died. I was actually told by one of the doctors that it would just be considered a regular abortion. And I had to fight them to avoid this, and search for a doctor who would induce the labor. So maybe those numbers don't mean exactly what we think they mean. I think we need more complete and meaningful information before we decide to pass laws. Raw numbers do not give us meaningful qualitative data. I still believe doctors are behaving ethically (not terminating late in pregnancy unless it's really needed), and if we are concerned that they are not, can we not make it an issue with medical oversight boards rather than an issue in courts? The few who are willing to do it can lose their license, and then it won't happen anymore. If I were 8 months pregnant I'd be willing to go out and do a little test of the system, go to doctors and ask them to terminate my perfectly healthy pregnancy. I sincerely don't believe I'd find takers. But if I'm proved wrong on this, or if we can find data on why these more than 9,000 late second trimester and third trimester abortions were performed, or if we do as I said and calculate out all the possibilities that might require late termination and it didn't add up to what's actually happening, OK, then let's take action. But you know, there are groups devoted to this issue. People who, unlike you and me, have great amounts of time and numbers of people devoted to it. They have the time to do the calculations I'm talking about, and they have the ability to send pregnant women out as decoys to find out how far doctors are willing to go. And even with all that energy devoted to it, I don't think those groups are coming up with information that shows that these >9,000 abortions have been performed for unethical reasons. Quote:
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I don't know, Helen. Maybe I'm being terribly naive or just not imaginative enough, but I can not think of circumstances that would cause a woman to suddenly pursue an abortion after going through half a year of pregnancy unless she were mentally incompetent at the time or had spent the first 6 months suffering some form of abuse. To me this sounds like the exact same person who abandons her newborn baby in the woods. Is this person thinking rationally? Quote:
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Now, I agree with you that life begins at conception. It's got multiplying living cells, therefore it's alive. I do not agree that it's a baby, a person. The life, at that point, is similar to the life of a virus or bacteria. It doesn't think. It doesn't feel. It is not aware of its own existance. In nearly half the cases after conception, the embryo will fail to attach to the uterine lining and the woman will have a normal period. She was never even pregnant, because pregnancy begins at implantation, not conception. No one will ever know. Would it make sense to mourn the death of a child every time I have a period and know I had sex that cycle so there might have been a couple of cells with unique human DNA in the blood I passed? Why, exactly, do you think these cells that have the DNA information to potentially become a baby are the same thing as a baby, despite the fact that they don't have a brain or nerve endings to feel or be aware of anything at all? In a large percentage of cases, these cells won't survive the first 3 months. When they die, and the woman loses the pregnancy naturally, would you treat it as the death of a child? Would you ask when the funeral was to be held? Would you find it odd if they hung a picture of the embryo on their wall or (to be less morbid) framed a picture from their last live ultrasound and hung it over the mantle? If you would find that odd, but would not find it odd that they hung up a picture of their 5 day old baby who died in its sleep, what's the difference? Quote:
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