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04-19-2002, 11:04 AM | #81 |
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There are no such thing as rights, only obligations.
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04-19-2002, 11:41 AM | #82 |
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Thank you for catching me, I don't know what I would have done without you. So let's see, homoerotic rights of passage, well, they're not my cup of tea. But more importantly, what does it have to do with ritual clitectomy, or rights in general? Are both practices coercive? If given a choice, how many young men would want to suck an old man's dick and how many would not? What if I convinced them that the seman in question held no magic power, how many then would want to continue the practice? Am I somehow, because of someone else's opinion of proper conduct, confined to the role of passive observer, or do I have an obligation to pass on what I know to be true? If given the choice of having thier clitoris removed with a sharp stick, or not, how many massi women would choose the former? Unless, of course, if to refuse meant removal from the group? To say such that behaviors are simply "practices", without deeper sociological import, IMHO, exhibits a rather shallow understanding of such rituals. Are the subjects willing in that they have been made aware of the consequences? What are thier chioces? Can they choose not to without reprecussions? How do these practices enhance the functioning of the societies in question? How do they harm the individuals involved? Is questioning of such practices even allowed within the society in question? Well, I guess you can shrug your shoulders and say that it's not my business, it'll all come out in the wash any way.(unless you save the dress as a keep sake.)But, being the elitist that I am, I might try to point out some of the downsides of such voluntary practices. In turn, of course, I would be open to thier critisims of my own relatively bizzare practices(such as sitting here looking at pixels on a screen, talk about bizzare) Snatchbalance [ April 19, 2002: Message edited by: snatchbalance ]</p> |
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Intensity,
I guess my real point is something like this: As a thinking person, when I see something that I consider to be "wrong", and I believe there are many degrees of "wrongness", I have both the right and obligation to piont out such "wrongs". I don't have time right now, but I will attempt to support this contention in the near future. Snatchbalance |
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To all: While on the whole this discussion has been relatively calm, some of the more recent posts have seemed a bit more, well, polemic. I would like to remind all participants that no actual humans are being harmed in these forums and to request that we all try very hard to be civil to one another no matter how vehement our disagreement might be. Thank you all for your cooperation. We now return you to your previously scheduled discussion. /moderator hat off Bill Snedden |
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They grow up knowing its something they not only have to do, but something they should do - something honourable something to be proud of. So when the time comes, they face it with stoic resolution. There are rarely cases of resistance especially for people brought up in those cultures. Pain is involved, death sometimes (from cutting the wrong blood vessels or infections) but it is treated as a passage of life. The pain of the cut is "reduced" through crude means like going to the river early in the morning. I agree with you that we have an obligation to inform such people that its not the best way to mark those rites of passage and that manhood or womanhood is more than a mutilated genital. Currently, besides sensitizing them, we are offering them alternative rites of passage but it will take some time before they get acceptance. Mostly, there is a lot of superstition and fear - which of course thrive on ignorance. Quote:
To snatch away the crude razor from the hands of the cutter results in death. They are being talked out of it and being sensitized on woman sexuality etc. But it is ultimately up to them. No one can monitor them day and night. Elitists can rant and rave but more pragmatic approaches are being adopted other than harsh criticism and posturing. Quote:
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/putting on helmet and protective gear for facing moderator If I am the one Bill is referring to as polemical, I challenge him to mention the specific instance. He is implying that I am sanctioning or promoting female circumcision and I resent the hell out of that. /removing helmet and anti-moderator gear |
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Intensity,
I guess that my read on your postion was something like: You're not part of the group, it's not your business, stay out of it. Instead, I now think it's more like: If you see something that you think is wrong, one can and should point out that wrong; but ultimately, only the group in question can decide on the proper course of action. If this is the case, you and I very close to being in agreement. It was the notion of passive acceptance that was sticking in my craw. As part of a subculture in my own society (atheist/pacifist in the USA) I am well aware of the problems in dealing with institutionalised practices and attitudes. I think that it is only because most of my thinking falls outside of the mainstream, that I am able to offer critism within my own group. Along the same vien, only by being outside the group mentality, can meanigful critisim be offered to other cultures. Like you say, the idea of choice becomes meaningles if one is not aware of any choices. Again, it was only the idea of passive acceptance that raised my ire. Thank you for taking the time to expand on your position. Snatchbalance |
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I am glad I have managed to make my position clear. *looks around to see if moderator is approachicg with his moderator cap on* [ April 20, 2002: Message edited by: IntenSity ]</p> |
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I would rephrase your statement above as, "no 'society', no need to acknowledge rights". Again, if there are things that most (if not all) "societies" hold to be right or wrong (and it certainly seems that there are such things) then some rights, that will be "identified" by a particular "society" that will come into existence, can exist before the "society" comes into existence. If there are things that are universally held to be "wrong", then there are "rights" that are relative to something other than the formation of a "society". Quote:
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If there were no civilization, people would still make personal evaluations of behavior. So even if there could be such a "state of nature" in which no "societal" organizations existed at all, the ideas of "rights" and "wrongs" woud not disappear entirely. They would merely be applied subjectively by each individual. (Again, my time online is divided, so please excuse any further delays in responding on my part.) [ April 20, 2002: Message edited by: jpbrooks ]</p> |
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