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wonkothesane · 03-25-2003, 05:44 PM

My insecurities - post #2

And another thing that bugs me...it seems that it is *far* easier for a girl to find companionship than a guy...why is that?

I think that part of it has to do with the fact, that for some complicated evolutionary reason, men are expected to "woo" a girl, to "go after" her, and girls, well, expect to be "gone after"...(only once have I known a girl that went after *me*, and she was also the same girl that prefered short guys...maybe it's all a confidence thing...she had a lot of it...)

Anyway, and because guys are always looking "for some action", they will circle just about *any* girl on the planet. There is an old joke/saying that if a guy want's to get laid, he goes to a bar, chases girls around, and usually goes home alone...but if a girl really wants to get laid, she just goes into a bar, stands on the counter, and anounces that she wants a guy and the *entire* bar will fight over her...it' true..and also, most girls are really *not* prone to do something like this...

Because girls don't even have to do *that* much work to get a guy, they just have to, well, *be* a girl...

(Now if a girl wants a *quality* guy, that's another story...)

So people...is it easier for girls to find a mate, or am I just getting insecure and hopeless???

- bryce

Koyaanisqatsi · 03-25-2003, 09:53 PM

To find a "mate" or just get laid?

If the former, probably harder than it is for us men, considering the way we treat them.

If the latter, all she has to do is say, "yes."

a8o · 03-26-2003, 01:05 AM

I'm really enjoying these insecurities.

Keep em comin'.

Wildheart · 03-26-2003, 06:27 AM

Just finding someone to have sex with is probably easy. I imagine most women wouldn't have problems doing that.

Finding someone to actually have a relationship with is much more difficult.

Wildheart · 03-26-2003, 06:28 AM

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Originally posted by a8o
I'm really enjoying these insecurities.

Keep em comin'.

Me too. What else bothers you, Bryce?

wonkothesane · 03-26-2003, 01:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Wildheart
Me too. What else bothers you, Bryce?

Well gosh [lays down on couch]...I'm afraid of heights, and I've always had this things about my mother...

(JUST KIDDING!!! About the mother, not the heights...)

- bryce

Ensign Steve · 03-26-2003, 02:33 PM

You're kidding right? I think it's a known fact that it is possible for any female mammal, no matter how disfigured or dysfunctional, to get laid anytime she wants to just by sticking her ass up in the air. Some of us find that super boring and make it more challenging by seeking other females.

And I still think I have it easier than most males in that regard.

I missed insecurity #1.

I'll look around for it.

openeyes · 03-26-2003, 02:56 PM

If we're talking about coupling with 1 man and 1 woman, wouldn't the odds overall be about the same (if the population is roughly 50/50)? Or is that males' definition of "ease" is harder to meet because frequency if more important to them (in general terms)?

Monkeybot · 03-26-2003, 03:05 PM

I'm with Koy and Wildheart.

It's probably easier for women to get laid, but trust me, it's not a cakewalk to find a decent relationship (and that's not a man-bashing comment, it really is just plain hard work on both sides).

Loren Pechtel · 03-26-2003, 05:28 PM

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Originally posted by openeyes
If we're talking about coupling with 1 man and 1 woman, wouldn't the odds overall be about the same (if the population is roughly 50/50)? Or is that males' definition of "ease" is harder to meet because frequency if more important to them (in general terms)?

I think there's more females who are not looking.

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03-25-2003, 05:44 PM	#1
wonkothesane Veteran Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Outside of the asylum... Posts: 2,049	Is it easier for girls to find a date/mate? My insecurities - post #2 And another thing that bugs me...it seems that it is far easier for a girl to find companionship than a guy...why is that? I think that part of it has to do with the fact, that for some complicated evolutionary reason, men are expected to "woo" a girl, to "go after" her, and girls, well, expect to be "gone after"...(only once have I known a girl that went after me, and she was also the same girl that prefered short guys...maybe it's all a confidence thing...she had a lot of it...) Anyway, and because guys are always looking "for some action", they will circle just about any girl on the planet. There is an old joke/saying that if a guy want's to get laid, he goes to a bar, chases girls around, and usually goes home alone...but if a girl really wants to get laid, she just goes into a bar, stands on the counter, and anounces that she wants a guy and the entire bar will fight over her...it' true..and also, most girls are really not prone to do something like this... Because girls don't even have to do that much work to get a guy, they just have to, well, be a girl... (Now if a girl wants a quality guy, that's another story...) So people...is it easier for girls to find a mate, or am I just getting insecure and hopeless??? - bryce

03-25-2003, 09:53 PM	#2
Koyaanisqatsi Veteran Member Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Yes, I have dyslexia. Sue me. Posts: 6,508	To find a "mate" or just get laid? If the former, probably harder than it is for us men, considering the way we treat them. If the latter, all she has to do is say, "yes."

03-26-2003, 01:05 AM	#3
a8o Regular Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 163	I'm really enjoying these insecurities. Keep em comin'.

03-26-2003, 06:27 AM	#4
Wildheart Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: United States Posts: 56	Just finding someone to have sex with is probably easy. I imagine most women wouldn't have problems doing that. Finding someone to actually have a relationship with is much more difficult.

03-26-2003, 02:33 PM	#7
Ensign Steve Veteran Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Augusta, Georgia, United States Posts: 1,235	You're kidding right? I think it's a known fact that it is possible for any female mammal, no matter how disfigured or dysfunctional, to get laid anytime she wants to just by sticking her ass up in the air. Some of us find that super boring and make it more challenging by seeking other females. And I still think I have it easier than most males in that regard. I missed insecurity #1. I'll look around for it.

03-26-2003, 02:56 PM	#8
openeyes Veteran Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Minnesota Posts: 4,215	If we're talking about coupling with 1 man and 1 woman, wouldn't the odds overall be about the same (if the population is roughly 50/50)? Or is that males' definition of "ease" is harder to meet because frequency if more important to them (in general terms)?

03-26-2003, 03:05 PM	#9
Monkeybot Veteran Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: North Carolina Posts: 8,102	I'm with Koy and Wildheart. It's probably easier for women to get laid, but trust me, it's not a cakewalk to find a decent relationship (and that's not a man-bashing comment, it really is just plain hard work on both sides).

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