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Old 10-02-2003, 12:07 PM   #111
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In fact, some were admitedly so. This is why they left the church. Others made no bones about it. When in high school, the ones I knew who distanced themselves from God and church and called themselves atheists were much the same as I described. They drank to excess, did drugs to excess, listened to lirics of rock bands like Slayer. Of course I can't say for sure whether all these people I knew were atheists. Many said they were.
Well I wouldn't saying listening to Slayer is all that pejorative, but in any case if they claimed to be atheists that is sufficient. I'm not seeking a true scotsman; I simply saw no evidence in your previous post that the people you were talking about were actually atheists beyond their not attending church.

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However, the same can be said of the violence done in the name of religion. How do you know for sure that the people comitting the violence don't have reasons other than religion? How do you know for sure that they really believe in a God? They certainly don't believe in the God I grew up with...
I hope my above clarification covers this as well.

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Of course I know better than to say that all atheists act the way the ones I knew growing up and some of the ones I know today are representative of the whole. I'm simply saying that due to life experiences, it is no wonder that I view religion very positively whereas Biff views religion very negatively. Perhaps it's something within the people themselves that drives them to be cruel and unreasonable and not religion...
I agree. My personal experiences with religion have been generally innocuous, and I went to Catholic school for 12 years. The environment of my formative years is without question the single greatest reason for my current views on religion. I appreciate the positive aspects (Catholic art, Quaker pacifism, your childhood church's civic committment) just as I rail against the negative ones (obsession with sexual morality/control, divisive rhetoric of saved v. damned, battering ram conversion tactics on a personal and sociopolitical level).

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Anyway, livius, I just wanted to say that I have appreciated your comments to Starboy. I think they are on the mark. If he doesn't take them to heart, maybe others will.
Thank you, but I know you're just saying that because I haven't brought up the ossuary yet.

In all seriousness, I believe it is essential both to decent human interaction and to the mission of the Secular Web that we not take umbrage at the mere expression of belief just because that belief may be associated in our minds with a wide assortment of horrors. Painting everybody with one brush is not only the very definition of bigotry, but it makes for endlessly boring conversation.
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Old 10-02-2003, 12:21 PM   #112
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One very effective way to get a bully to back off is to stand strong, with confidence and truth. Then you work with those who might stand with him by demonstrating that you are the "reasonable" force. When you stand united, with those within his own circle, and reject his bullying with the strength of that silent unification, he generally ceases his behavior.
Your kidding me right? Bullies don't give a rats a** about reason.

Anyway if you want to demonize me to make your point then have at it, but as long as I am allowed to post on IIDB if I come across theist that do not respect my right to think as I wish and see it as their duty to "save" me then they are gonna get a piece of my mind. You theists know who you are and it is pretty much most of you.

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Old 10-02-2003, 12:24 PM   #113
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brighid, placation usually emboldens the bully. If we were dealing with reasonable people I would agree with you but there is very little that is reasonable about Christianity.
You are equivocating again. When I asked you before to explain when in your opinion a Christian crossed the lined from expressing a point of view into bullying, you replied:

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I guess it all depends on what you mean by representing the theistic point of view. Now if the theist has no problem with me being an atheist even if they know my honest opinion of their religion, then hey, they are fine with me.
Here you seem capable of distinguishing between people and their beliefs. Not very well, mind you, as you require that they have "no problem" with your contempt for their religion (a contempt traditionally accompanied by all kinds of vitriolic rhetoric which apparently does not qualify as bullying in your worldview) in order to be acceptable Christians, but nonetheless, you grudgingly admit to their existence.

Now you say that Christianity alone makes someone a bully because the belief system is unreasonable. So which is it? Does the approach matter or not?
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Old 10-02-2003, 12:41 PM   #114
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I guess it all depends on what you mean by practicing something. Use your common sense. If this country had a majority of Muslims instead of Christians and you were a Christian how would you want the Muslims to behave to respect your religion? Would you want them putting pictures and saying of Allah on your currency? Would you want the pledge to include "Allah Ackbar"? Would you want advocates of Allah constantly accosting your family and you trying to convert you to Islam? Wouldn't you want them to follow the constitution and respect the separation of Church and state? If practicing your religion means that you do not respect the constitution and the rights of others then I advocate that you not be allowed to practice your religion, not as a matter of me being atheist but as a matter of law and the constitution! If you can't do that then you are no patriot and do not deserve to call yourself an American.
This is a delightful rant, but totally ignores the question.

Do you believe that practicing something is advocating it?

It's just a yes/no question, and I'm not asking what you think about separation of church or state, or any other issues which, while fascinating, are not on point.
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Your kidding me right? Bullies don't give a rats a** about reason.
No, they don't care about reason. I did not say they did. However, bullies tend to back off when they are challenged by a group of people and bullies don't continue to bully when a small or large group of individuals (and even an individual himself) does not tolerate that behavior.

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Anyway if you want to demonize me to make your point then have at it, but as long as I am allowed to post on IIDB if I come across theist that do not respect my right to think as I wish and see it as their duty to "save" me then they are gonna get a piece of my mind. You theists know who you are and it is pretty much most of you.
Who is demonizing you? Discussing the ramifications of your behaviors and attitudes is hardly "demonizing YOU."

There are plenty of people, theist or otherwise, that will not respect another's right to think, act, worship, etc. but your track record has been that you attack theists for being theists, whether they have expressed a disrespect for your right to think or not. Since proselytizing is against the rules I don't understand your fear, given that no person here has the ability to harm you in any way through the discussion we have here.

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You are absolutely right. I did not always feel this way about Christians, but a lifetime of exposure to the mind crud that is Christianity has done it. If they would keep it to themselves and really practiced what they preach then they wouldn't bother me. Fat chance they can do that. This is why proselytizing from a Christian is an act of aggression, the spread of a disease.
And here, you show that you have exactly the same response to *all* Christians, no matter who they are, that you are complaining about people having towards *all* atheists, no matter who they are.

The disease is not a given belief system; it's the demonization of others. You seem to have caught it.
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Old 10-02-2003, 12:48 PM   #117
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Haran, I am not asking you to give up your religion nor am I advocating that your religion be abolished as long as Christians can respect the constitution and use common sense in the multi-cultural world we find ourselves in.
Then, in the world we live in, you haven't got a problem with Christianity, only with some particular groups.

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This may be impossible for Christians to do when taking into account the �truth� mongering aspect of their religion
Ahh, yes. Starboy's favorite tactic; put the word "truth" in scare quotes to indicate that it's got the special Starboy-meaning, in which it's a bad word which can never be adequately defined, but is clearly Bad And Outmoded, like every other aspect of human experience or philosophy which predates the 1900's.

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, but Christians have to learn to accept, and consider just as valid, views of life and existence that conflict with their own.
Do you consider Christianity "just as valid" as your own views? Of course not; you think it's *false*.

The majority of Christians have no objection to the existance or practice of other religions, just as most atheists have no objection to the existance or practice of any religions. That doesn't mean other things are "valid" or "true" - just that most people can deal with other people disagreeing with them on philosophical matters.

Unfortunately, there is a core problem, not easily resolved, which is that as soon as there's a group of people with a common label, it's very easy to paint them all with one broad stroke of a brush. Just as you can casually dismiss all Christians as being just like the bogeyman of the day (are we still on Falwell?), many Christians fall into the same trap, and judge all atheists as being just like... Oh, pick anyone. It doesn't matter much, after all, atheists are all alike, right?

The perpetual source of amazement to me is that people can be horribly offended at being lumped in with other members of their group, and yet, turn around and do the same thing to other groups.
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Perhaps I am the poster boy for the "angry atheist" but you have to understand my background. My family did live through times where extremist went unopposed. Where "the right thing to do" was to work quietly. They were killed, imprisoned, tortured and those that were left alive were force to flee or died in Siberia. Sometimes you have to oppose intolerance with intolerance. There is nothing else for it.
If you have been through such times, how is it possible that you cannot tell them apart from the times we live in now?

Pay attention! Today, extremists are opposed, and, at least in the US, people are not generally killed, imprisoned, or tortured for not sharing the right philosophy.

Curiously, the philosophies which have done the best job of enforcing such standards were not religious ones, but economic ones. When love of power is unconstrained by occasional inconvenient words of hope in old books, it's much more dangerous.
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It seems to me that the process or tendency to oppose here is that which bifurcates the world into "us" and "them". Who "we" or "they" is beside the point.
Exactly! If you want enemies, they can be invented by the thousands. That doesn't mean they were there before you started looking.
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Your kidding me right? Bullies don't give a rats a** about reason.
Indeed, a lot of them reject the very underyling concepts of reason.

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Anyway if you want to demonize me to make your point then have at it, but as long as I am allowed to post on IIDB if I come across theist that do not respect my right to think as I wish and see it as their duty to "save" me then they are gonna get a piece of my mind. You theists know who you are and it is pretty much most of you.
You probably ought to switch that chip from one shoulder to the other occasionally, so it doesn't permanently bend your spine.
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