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Old 12-17-2004, 10:48 AM   #1
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I think it's easy to forget sometimes--especially after spending too much time at IIDB--that Christians are people too, that they come in all flavors, and not all of them are just as bad as the devil they believe in. I found this story rather refreshing (emphasis added):

Foot Locker settles bias suit

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On Thursday, Lambda Legal declared a victory for LGBT employees at Foot Locker after the company settled an anti-gay discrimination lawsuit filed in June.

Lambda Legal sued on behalf of Kevin Dunbar of Columbia, S.C., who said he was fired after complaining about the anti-gay harassment he suffered at the hands of co-workers -- despite the company's nondiscrimination policy.

At one point, Dunbar was promised that his complaint would be kept confidential. But when he transferred from one store to another, Dunbar said his new manager knew about what happened and refused to shake his hand. According to Dunbar, the manager said, "I heard about your shit; I don't want your faggot ass in my store."

The abuse was so bad that one customer gave Dunbar her name and phone number. "[A]s a Christian woman I felt this was wrong," the customer said. "The Lord told me to help and heal because the hurt, pain and embarrassment I saw on Mr. Dunbar's face was intense."
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Customers Come Forward as Witnesses

Three customers who witnessed three separate incidents of antigay harassment have sworn affidavits on Dunbar’s behalf.

One customer approached Dunbar and gave him her name and phone number “because as a Christian woman I felt this was wrong, and the Lord told me to help and heal because the hurt, pain and embarrassment I saw on Mr. Dunbar’s face was intense.�?

On another occasion, a customer was shopping with her four children and heard Dunbar’s coworkers calling him “punk ass�? and “faggot.�? After one particularly harsh round of name-calling, a customer was concerned for Dunbar’s safety when she heard a co-worker say, “I will beat his punk ass!�?
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There is absolutely no doubt that there are plenty of Christians who behave in an ethical and courageous manner. But...
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"The Lord told me to help and heal because the hurt, pain and embarrassment I saw on Mr. Dunbar's face was intense."
Why did it take an imaginary sky daddy to move her to help, if the man's anguish was so apparent? And as her actions were, in fact, ethical and courageous, why can't she take credit for them?

And it begs the question, of course, of what religion the offending manager was. I'm going to guess -- based entirely on statistics but I could be wrong -- that he wasn't atheist. How can two people follow the same religion and, theoretically, the same moral code, and yet treat people in such vastly different ways?
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Why did it take an imaginary sky daddy to move her to help, if the man's anguish was so apparent?
Does it matter?

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How can two people follow the same religion and, theoretically, the same moral code, and yet treat people in such vastly different ways?
Happens among atheists all the time, though, doesn't it?
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Does it matter?
Well, only in that it's a little sad that it was clearly her own empathy and compassion that were speaking to her, and she can't even give herself credit for that. Regardless, I applaud her for her actions and I do find the story encouraging and refreshing. If only all Christians were like that maybe we wouldn't have so many gripes about Christianity.
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How can two people follow the same religion and, theoretically, the same moral code, and yet treat people in such vastly different ways?
Happens among atheists all the time, though, doesn't it?
If so, luvluv, please describe
(a) what specifically makes atheism a religion?
(b) what is the moral code that is officially adopted by atheists?

I'm hoping that was a joke, for you don't have any evidence for your claim - you are committing a category error, or you don't know what atheism is. After 2000+ posts, I find the latter hard to believe though.
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Well, only in that it's a little sad that it was clearly her own empathy and compassion that were speaking to her, and she can't even give herself credit for that.
I'm a Christian, and on occassions when I feel the Holy Spirit is trying to persuade me to engage in some trying moral course of action, the fact that it's my own empathy and compassion that are speaking to me is not evident at all. And pardon my skepticism, but if it's not clear to me (or this lady) I don't see how it could be clear to you.

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I'm hoping that was a joke, for you don't have any evidence for your claim - you are committing a category error, or you don't know what atheism is. After 2000+ posts, I find the latter hard to believe though.
I was speaking broadly. Point being, there are atheists with roughly the same metaphysical view (naturalism, materialism, what have you) who both believe in objective morality and yet disagree on specific moral issues. In the case above, it need not even be the case that the store owner and the customer have different beliefs, only that one was behaving according to those beliefs and one was not. This, too, happens among atheists as well as the religious. We all occasionally fail to be the people we'd like to be.
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Odd though, that the Holy Ghost should suddenly go against the sacred scripture of God that lays out God's unchanging plan for man and tell this woman to act like a humanist towards this abomination of a vile sodomite sales clerk.

This lady is a decent person in spite of her religion and not because of it. She might give credit to God for her actions but there is nothing in God's word to support them
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I'm a Christian, and on occassions when I feel the Holy Spirit is trying to persuade me to engage in some trying moral course of action, the fact that it's my own empathy and compassion that are speaking to me is not evident at all. And pardon my skepticism, but if it's not clear to me (or this lady) I don't see how it could be clear to you.
It is clear to me, and to all other atheists, because we believe that the Holy Spirit is imaginary. You asked an atheist what difference it makes. To us that is a huge difference. I think it's tragic when an imaginary friend gets credit for something that a real live human being does. Especially when said imaginary friend is widely used to support the very homophobia that inspired the discrimination in the first place!

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I was speaking broadly. Point being, there are atheists with roughly the same metaphysical view (naturalism, materialism, what have you) who both believe in objective morality and yet disagree on specific moral issues. In the case above, it need not even be the case that the store owner and the customer have different beliefs, only that one was behaving according to those beliefs and one was not. This, too, happens among atheists as well as the religious. We all occasionally fail to be the people we'd like to be.
We don't have a book that tells us what to do or how to act. It's natural that we disagree because we each have to figure things out for ourselves. Your book, your authority, on the other hand gets downright nitpicky in its instructions, and the problem is not that "one was behaving according to those beliefs and one was not". The problem is that your guide, that is supposed to have all the answers, is so unclear and contradicts itself so badly that both those who discriminate against homosexuals and those who defend them can firmly believe they are doing the right thing according to the Bible.
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It is clear to me, and to all other atheists, because we believe that the Holy Spirit is imaginary.
Well, I suppose it's clear that you believe the Holy Spirit is imaginary, but it's not at all clear that the Holy Spirit is imaginary, particularly to people who believe they have experienced His work.

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But you think that if you did, you'd not only all agree on all moral issues at all times, but that you'd perfectly adhere to those issues?

At any rate, there are atheists who ascribe to a moral theory outlilned explicitly in books (Randian Objectivists, for example, who take her The Virtue of Selfishness as gospel) who nonetheless disagree on moral issues.

Probably all this means is that moral issues are tricky, and that there is no moral calculus sufficient to ensure that all human beings who follow it all come to the same conclusions all of the time.
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I don't get it. This woman decided to do the right thing. What does it matter if she thought it was God telling her to do it rather than her own conscience? Sure, you can point out how internally inconsistant Christian theology may be, but I don't think it's hard to cobble together a version where all the old testament brutality is overturned by Jesus.
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