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Agemegos · 01-12-2005, 10:09 PM

G'day

It happens that I have never been any woman's first lover, so I have not even as much knowledge of what it is like for a woman to be deflowered as I might have had by being there when it happened. One hears stories of pain and blood, and also stories of it being nothing much. I guess the experience various from woman to woman.

So I'd like to as those with first hand experience. How much does it hurt, if at all? How much did you bleed? Any other observations on your first time?

Regards,

Brett

Viti · 01-12-2005, 10:15 PM

It hurt fairly badly. I bled a bit more than expected. Some women lose their hymen to gymnastics, horse back riding, etc. before their first sex, so they don't experience as much pain or blood.

Cynical-Chick · 01-12-2005, 10:16 PM

She'll bleed if her hymen hasn't popped yet, which is unlikely.

And it can hurt, and my first time wasn't very good.

Agemegos · 01-12-2005, 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyShea

It hurt fairly badly.

I know this is hard to quantity, or even compare. But can you give me an idea of how badly? Can you compare it to having one's ears pierced? Being punched? Having abdominal surgery? Breaking a leg?

Agemegos · 01-12-2005, 10:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cynical-Chick

my first time wasn't very good.

I'm sorry. Was that because it was your first time, or for some other reason?

Viti · 01-12-2005, 11:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Agemegos

I know this is hard to quantity, or even compare. But can you give me an idea of how badly? Can you compare it to having one's ears pierced? Being punched? Having abdominal surgery? Breaking a leg?

Um, that is really hard to quantify. It was a burning pain, somehwat akin to very bad menstrual cramps (which always bring, to my mind, images of a caustic liquid filling my abdomen). Nothing at all compared to surgeries. I have never broken a bone or been punched. Worse than ears pierced because the pain lasted longer.

May I ask why you want this information?

Agemegos · 01-12-2005, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyShea

May I ask why you want this information?

Mostly because I like to understand other people's experience. This is something that nearly half of all people go through, and that I will never experience at first hand.

Partly because I am about to write a chapter in which one of the characters will have her first sexual junction. It's not that I intend to write the scene itself, but I want to get her reaction right.

Fear not. I am not contemplating deflowering my first virgin.

jastity · 01-13-2005, 01:14 AM

I don't recall any pain, it was a lovely experience. But I remember I bled for almost a week later. Not gallons, but enough that I had to take care of it.

Marruk · 01-13-2005, 03:15 AM

No blood, and no pain.
I had also spent alot of time growing up horseback riding (western style). I most likely lost my hymen when I was 12 from it. I've also never had menstrual cramps so that may have had something to do with it also. Also another possible factor, I didn't loose my virginity till I was almost 18 and the guy I lost my virginity with had a small penis (not that this is a bad thing).

no_more_700_club · 01-13-2005, 04:33 AM

No pain and my first time was pretty good, but I did have a lot of, um, practice before hand. :devil3:

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Agemegos Veteran Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: 152° 50' 15" E by 31° 5' 17" S Posts: 2,916	Defloweration G'day It happens that I have never been any woman's first lover, so I have not even as much knowledge of what it is like for a woman to be deflowered as I might have had by being there when it happened. One hears stories of pain and blood, and also stories of it being nothing much. I guess the experience various from woman to woman. So I'd like to as those with first hand experience. How much does it hurt, if at all? How much did you bleed? Any other observations on your first time? Regards, Brett

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01-12-2005, 10:15 PM	#2
Viti Contributor Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Down South Posts: 12,879	It hurt fairly badly. I bled a bit more than expected. Some women lose their hymen to gymnastics, horse back riding, etc. before their first sex, so they don't experience as much pain or blood.

01-12-2005, 10:16 PM	#3
Cynical-Chick Contributor Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 11,424	She'll bleed if her hymen hasn't popped yet, which is unlikely. And it can hurt, and my first time wasn't very good.

01-13-2005, 01:14 AM	#8
jastity Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 712	I don't recall any pain, it was a lovely experience. But I remember I bled for almost a week later. Not gallons, but enough that I had to take care of it.

01-13-2005, 03:15 AM	#9
Marruk Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Long Beach, CA Posts: 1,596	No blood, and no pain. I had also spent alot of time growing up horseback riding (western style). I most likely lost my hymen when I was 12 from it. I've also never had menstrual cramps so that may have had something to do with it also. Also another possible factor, I didn't loose my virginity till I was almost 18 and the guy I lost my virginity with had a small penis (not that this is a bad thing).

01-13-2005, 04:33 AM	#10
no_more_700_club Veteran Member Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Salish Sea Posts: 1,727	No pain and my first time was pretty good, but I did have a lot of, um, practice before hand. :devil3:

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