Mysterious

It obvious sex is very sensitive, secretive, picky, and closed in modern society. If people sexuality, tolerance, willingness to perform AND SAY YES 100% accepting at all times, circumstances, people, etc, would society abuse the sexual privledge? Imagine if you could have sex with anybody even complete stragers absolutely free out of kind-ness of their hearts to help make society more sexually happy, educated, aware, experienced, tolerant, willing, etc?

In any event, harmful pornography, raping, pedophiling, and sexual abuse, assual, harm, etc would decrease less. Once the evil sexual stalkers in society begin to adapt to the new society and learn more about the practice, and see CHANGE, they would be much less inclined to continue their everyday practices. Why, because people like pedophiles, rapist, stalkers, or sexual predators practice their habits with no remorse, care, guilt, etc is becuase these same people DO NOT UNDERSTAND, KNOW, OR HAVE ANY EDUCATION on the risks, consequences, effects this would have.

Everything they know as right and wrong about sex was illegally forced on them by society eg parents, authority, environment, etc against their will but if the sexual choices, decisions, rights,etc became 100% liberated and free-will, and there was nobody to push anything on them or stop it, society would definitely rethink sex!

Gunnaheave

Is this really an intellectual exercise, or would you like to be alone?

000

Sex good

Mysterious

Its an exercise to get people to come outside their comfort zones. I am not alone because i believe if everybody had the choice accept or give sex to legitimate, clean, honest, people that is not trying to abuse the privledge, they would.

Its just that in modern times, its taboo to not discuss sex with anybody publicly and its absolutely NO to ask a complete stranger for any kind of sexual pleasure eg hugging, touching, kissing, photos, sex, or anything because they will call the police, file legal sexual harrassment, assault, attempted rape, etc and you will go to jail in most cases!

Inany event, its not the persons fault for resisting sexual requests. They were taught their behavior, taboo, morality, ethics, etc by parents, legal authority, and society at large. Even if a substantial part of society attempted to change current SEX taboo and status quo, severe pressure, resistance, marginalization, and actions would be taken to STOP THE BEHABIOR AND PRACTICE FROM SPREADING. people never had personal sex choices when it comes to society as a whole eg where, when, who, how, etc. they been told, demanded, and forced to abide by what is accepted.

Gunnaheave

Yeah, I think I"m just going to back out of here and leave you to it.

Jason Harvestdancer

So ... you're trying to envision a society where people never say no to sex?

Can you think of reasons other than societal pressure where one might not wish to engage in sex with another?

Newton's Cat

There have actually been experiments in 'Sexual Communism'. They were promising at first ... but then things got violent.

braces_for_impact

That's actually pretty interesting. Any links?

As to the OP, It seems to me that your premise could possibly be valid (not that I'm inclined to agree with it anyway) if it was only culture/society that influenced sexual behavior, and if there were no emotional repercussions from the act of sex.

Lets do a little thought experiment. What if (in the perfect world of the OP) you were walking down the street and an unattractive person approached you for sex involving fecal matter and a rather large dildo. Now the person approaching you might genuinely desire and derive pleasure from such an act, but chances are you do not. (By the way, I'm not picking on those of you that do enjoy such sex play, more power to ya among consenting adults I say, feel free to substitute some kind of sexual behavior you find distasteful.) Do you see the problem? You may be giving someone else some happiness, but you yourself are not happy.

Now, that being said, could you see what would happen to the really attractive people among us? They'd never get anything done! Imagine the really hot girl/guy. "Damn another request for sex? That's the 8th time today!"

tjakey

I never say no to sex. Then again the only person who has ever asked me for any is my wife...

JEST2ASK

It seems to me you are suggesting imposing your values regarding what would make society more Happy,Educated Tolerant with no real (IMO) arguement that such a goal would achieve the desired effect. There seems to be a large area between what you see as "illegaly" forced behaviour and allowing for individuals to choose freely to have or not to have contact / interaction with other members of society.


Why stop (or start) with sex Having someone else cook, clean for me or entertain me should also be a resonable request