stray bullet

sssh! That's a maybe

BigToe

Nope, just invitations for snuggling.

stray bullet

INNOCENT snuggling.

BigToe

I know. That's why I said snuggling instead of making out or groping or screwing. If I were trying to say you had invited me for something of a more naughty nature, I would have just said so.

Lel

See, now I'm going to bed so you two can flirt. Good timing, huh?

BigToe

HAHA I was flirting with him online before I posted in here. It's getting him to flirt back that is difficult haha. But you have a great night and a wonderful day tomorrow.

stray bullet

hehe.

Good night lel

Joykins1

And part of it may be fears that "he really prefers men and he'll tell me he's really gay and not bi and leave me after we've been married 15 years and have 3 kids." That one's actually kind of understandible if not exactly reality-based in all cases.

It speaks to insecurity and a lot of women are very, very insecure about their own attractiveness.

Incidentally, a potential suitor's bisexuality wasn't a problem to me as long as he was going to be faithful. But I'm just an old married suburban mom by now whose only claim to nonvanilla sexuality was a few unacted-upon crushes in college... It may be a surprise to those who think I "defend homosexuality" on CF, but I actually came to the conclusion that it was not right for me (which was actually easy enough as I am mostly straight anyway--but it left me with a more in-depth appreciation and empathy for all the problems people go through related to religion and sexual identity).

Tawny

Afternoon everyone, I haven't been here in the longest time. I trust you are all well

Captain Yesterday

Yes, they are thankfully And thanks for keeping us in mind! The individual who tried to break in and had already murdered two has been arrested and there were also two kids about 16 and 15 who had held up a convienience store and were breaking into houses at the same time that were caught.

The scary thing is, the first person (who murdered two folk) tried breaking into my house and not an hour later the two kids were in my front yard asking for a drink! Later, when the police showed we discovered that the kids were armed and what they had been up to. Scary stuff but all is well now for us anyway.

And darn rat work! I miss the big bi/gay discussion it seems lol. So much I could have said, so much you're all probably glad I wasn't around to actually say