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fortytwo · 12-07-2004, 11:36 PM

Face, eyes, & then the butt....

(off topic) IMHO personality is the deciding factor, looks aren't everything.

Leah · 12-08-2004, 01:02 AM

Attractive as in 'to look at': a well formed body, artistic but strong hands, rounded fingertips, short and clean nails, a round face and rounded features, a big and warm smile.

Attractive as in 'sexually arousing': well formed hands, a big chin, shoulders, dark clothes, dark hair, a good laugh, sensuality in the way he looks, the way he moves his body to music, a full voice.

Attractive as in 'feel drawn to/touching/fascinating':
shy, reserved, sensitive, gentle, soft, friendly, caring, humerous, insecure, lonesome, intelligent, philosophical, conservative, honest, smiles as good as he can look serious.

If a man is simply nice, good, sincere, honest, friedly and caring, then that man is as beautiful to 'look at', to 'be sexually aroused by', to be 'fascinating', to 'to feel drawn to' as to 'touch me deeply'.
The person is not the body but the mind.

IamMoose · 12-08-2004, 03:43 AM

Height. I like em tall. A guy over six foot can get away with a lot in terms of everything else in my eyes

Plognark · 12-08-2004, 04:40 AM

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Originally Posted by IamMoose

Height. I like em tall. A guy over six foot can get away with a lot in terms of everything else in my eyes

Excellent! :thumbs:

beth · 12-08-2004, 05:59 AM

To me, I find intelligence the sexiest thing to do with a guy.
Next, I think a gentlemanly demenor, then nice eyes, then nice legs-because strong legs make me assume strong lover.

Acinom · 12-08-2004, 06:27 AM

The eyes have it.

Of course, I go for all-around attractiveness. Nice face, nice body. But only the eyes have the ability to make me feel hot and weak. *swoon!*

EverLastingGodStopper · 12-08-2004, 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Leah

Attractive as in: <snip: several definitions>

The person is not the body but the mind.

Yep. No poll choices for bisexuals, no poll choices for those who are attracted based on personality or smarts rather than body parts. These polls make Baby Jesus cry.

If this were a "vote for favorite body part" thread then I would say "where is the thigh option?" and "why limit by gender/sex?"

Friar Bellows · 12-08-2004, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by beth

...then nice legs-because strong legs make me assume strong lover.

I'm living proof that the two assumptions you've made (i.e. nice legs ---> strong legs, strong legs ---> strong lover) are wrong. Carry on.

DaveyBoy · 12-08-2004, 08:44 AM

I think you needed to include "stature" as a choice in this poll. When I hear women evaluating a man's level of attractiveness, his height is often the first thing they comment on.

Roland98 · 12-08-2004, 08:52 AM

Overall personality trumps anything physically, but as far as looks, the first thing I notice is a nice smile. I don't think that got mentioned on your other thread until about 25 posts in, very disappointing.

A nice smile can make even an otherwise "average" face just light up and look ten times better. Couple that with eyes I can get lost in and we have a winner. :thumbs:

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12-07-2004, 11:36 PM	#11
fortytwo Regular Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: gone Posts: 210	Face, eyes, & then the butt.... (off topic) IMHO personality is the deciding factor, looks aren't everything.

12-08-2004, 01:02 AM	#12
Leah Veteran Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Germany Posts: 3,280	Attractive as in 'to look at': a well formed body, artistic but strong hands, rounded fingertips, short and clean nails, a round face and rounded features, a big and warm smile. Attractive as in 'sexually arousing': well formed hands, a big chin, shoulders, dark clothes, dark hair, a good laugh, sensuality in the way he looks, the way he moves his body to music, a full voice. Attractive as in 'feel drawn to/touching/fascinating': shy, reserved, sensitive, gentle, soft, friendly, caring, humerous, insecure, lonesome, intelligent, philosophical, conservative, honest, smiles as good as he can look serious. If a man is simply nice, good, sincere, honest, friedly and caring, then that man is as beautiful to 'look at', to 'be sexually aroused by', to be 'fascinating', to 'to feel drawn to' as to 'touch me deeply'. The person is not the body but the mind.

12-08-2004, 03:43 AM	#13
IamMoose Veteran Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: On the fringes of the Lake District, UK Posts: 9,528	Height. I like em tall. A guy over six foot can get away with a lot in terms of everything else in my eyes

12-08-2004, 05:59 AM	#15
beth Veteran Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: where orange blossoms bloom... Posts: 1,802	To me, I find intelligence the sexiest thing to do with a guy. Next, I think a gentlemanly demenor, then nice eyes, then nice legs-because strong legs make me assume strong lover.

12-08-2004, 06:27 AM	#16
Acinom Veteran Member Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Sweet Home North Carolina Posts: 1,723	The eyes have it. Of course, I go for all-around attractiveness. Nice face, nice body. But only the eyes have the ability to make me feel hot and weak. swoon!

12-08-2004, 08:44 AM	#19
DaveyBoy Regular Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: over here Posts: 100	I think you needed to include "stature" as a choice in this poll. When I hear women evaluating a man's level of attractiveness, his height is often the first thing they comment on.

12-08-2004, 08:52 AM	#20
Roland98 Contributor Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Gilead Posts: 11,186	Overall personality trumps anything physically, but as far as looks, the first thing I notice is a nice smile. I don't think that got mentioned on your other thread until about 25 posts in, very disappointing. A nice smile can make even an otherwise "average" face just light up and look ten times better. Couple that with eyes I can get lost in and we have a winner. :thumbs:

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